Little reminder: Those people you are alienating, those as per your and Lemmy judgement “Nazi, racists, uneducated, homophobic, traitors, fascists, unethical, uncompassionate and misogynistic” are voters with as much rights as you have to decide the course of the nation

Yep. They sure do. And I'm judging them for the direction they have chosen.

How is it whenever anyone makes a post like this, it's "ZOMG don't alienate the magas." Do you suppose there are folks who care enough about unity to tell the magas maybe they shouldn't alienate all the non-magas in their lives? Do you tell magas that? I have multiple neighbors who had signs in their yard for YEARS proclaiming Biden voters or Democrats as traitors, morons, etc as they adjusted the mix of their handwritten signs every so often.

Seems to me they have spent the past several years alienating me. Seems to me they have voted for policies and politicians that are explicitly intending to harm anyone who isn't a white cisthet man. That includes quite a lot of groups that neither me nor anyone near me is a member of, but also includes groups that my children, my wife, and for that matter, a great many Trump voters themselves comprise.

And it seems to me that, just like when there was a bully in school as a kid, it's somehow the victim always asked to be the bigger person, not the bully. That was horseshit then, and it's horseshit now.

I mean in the sense that these are the standard blue collar, hard workers of the country. Those plumbers, electricians, waste disposal, street sweepers, truck drivers, and so on

Ask me about my background. (no don't, but also don't assume I've never been one of these people and can't identify with where they are coming from)

Somehow the party with the worst record towards unions and labor has convinced ~~all~~ many of the folks with union jobs that they will save them, and that they'll do so with a bsuinessman at the head of the country with a reputation for not paying his bills. And I should sympathize with that?

I reject your scolding and premise at the most fundamental possible level.

These people have spent more than the past 8 years being the loudest, rudest, most hateful group in any venue. On a personal level, we have avoided family gatherings to not have to listen to their shit, though somehow we eventually end up hearing it anyway. The policies they support obviously and openly hurt anyone not like them, and a very large percentage of the time they hurt themselves also. They are currently loudly cheering as our nation and government are being actively dismantled by the man they voted for.

I have nothing left for these people but to keep anyone and anything I care about as far out of their path and notice as possible, and hope that 5 years from now we can be arguing about this and not decaying in a mass grave someplace after they work their way down the "First they came for" ladder until finally they find something my family needs to be sent to a camp for.