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I didn't mean for this post to cause a bunch of arguing in the comments =(
I thought this was just some gallows humor (e.g. "Everything's lovely except that I have to fear for my safety all the time") type of shitpost that sounded similar to comments I've heard from women irl a lot.
I guess my issue is why the discomfort of some men is what dominated the conversation (in this instance). Men are also victims of murder, more so than women. But this thread went right into, "You're making us feel attacked." This wasn't about them in this capacity. The energy wasn't, "I wonder why that is, or, "me too" or even, "lol, hyperbole." It's like, "Me too" versus "what about me" energy.
One of the highest posts (at the time of replying) is a damn near essay about how it's worse for men when the post isn't even denying that in the first place. Like, I don't even disagree with it, but why are "you" on the defensive? If we're on the same side, and both genders don't want to be murdered, why did "You" come in with that energy? I could understand if they said "me too" and were hit with an essay in return, or silenced. But they weren't (not that they should have been). Men didn't join this conversation/thread and expand on the experience, they took it over and completely changed topic because (some of) their hurt feelings were more pressing than the concerns being referenced to. This meme didn't even pick women out as the sole victim, and they still came in ready to yell over the hypothetical female victim of this hypothetical night crime.
Their feelings being hurt outweighed any truth behind that meme. Their feelings outweighed concerns for their own safety. Their feelings outweighed any woman who did feel like that post was relatable, who could have shared tips or suggestions. If someone did that now, they would have to "prove" their point before they could address it, or that they're not trying to say they hate xyz, they're just trying to give tips, etc.,etc.
This is not to say those mens' feelings do not matter, nor that they should not be addressed in how we talk about violence, this is to say that this wasn't about them, feelings or otherwise. It was about people, of any gender, who like going out at night, but sometimes get spooked. It was making a joke at how some activities aren't always safe, and that sucks. If they saw themselves on the same side, I don't know why they made it "male victim" VS "female victim" in the first place.
(Sorry that this is long as hell. I'm a rambler.)