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What's something you used to do/see/say but don't anymore because you don't feel it's right? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago by T0rrent01 to c/asklemmy

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Me personally? I've become much less tolerant of sexist humor. Back in the day, cracking a joke at women's expense was pretty common when I was a teen. As I've matured and become aware to the horrific extent of toxicity and bigotry pervading all tiers of our individualistic society, I've come to see how exclusionarly and objectifying that sort of 'humor' really is, and I regret it deeply.

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[–] LillianVS 36 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Something rather cringe and obnoxious in hindsight was the over use of the word "ocd" It was quite common in media and in my circles for somebody to say "I'm so ocd" when referring to some perfectly normal thing they do like tidying bookcases and organising things.

It's pretty cringy now and I'd never say it now. I feel bad for saying it... but hey personal growth I guess. I was in school/college at the time too so it was a long time ago. There were a lot of things that were common at school that I used to say that are definitely not pc nowadays and I accept that. I don't pretend to be a perfect and morally righteous invidual. I have flaws as much as the next person

[–] ext23 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

People still throw OCD around like they're the world's quirkiest person "oh that's just my OCD lol"

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