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What would you do in this situation (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago by Deathtaco to c/asklemmy

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Hello fellow lemmy's , A bit of back story. I'm currently stuck with a decision and don't know what way to take it , I've moved back to my home city a month ago to be close to family and friends after a 3 year relationship ended, now that I've settled in I'm starting to regret the choice in moving , my job is based back where I moved from and friends have offered me place to stay until I get on my feet.

There is a lot I miss about where I lived and finding it difficult to see a future here, would you guys stay and ride out the feeling or go with your gut ?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (5 children)

This is not easily answered because we are not fully familiar with all of the nuances of your current situation. The best advice I can give you is to make a list of the positives and negatives. This can help get the thoughts swirling around in your head out on paper. Sometimes based on being able to see the positives and negatives written down, the answer can become quite clear. Give it a shot and see what you come up with.

[–] Rylyshar 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s exactly what I was going to suggest.

[–] FuglyDuck 3 points 1 year ago

Personally? I was gonna suggest living a double life, until it becomes obvious which one is better.

OP should go with the list.

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