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[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod 31 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I've heard from a lot of women that a portion of men take any attempt to provide suggestions as a direct attack on their masculinity

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Well that's just two reasons not to date them since those guys all probably listen to Tate.

[–] inv3r510n 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not just men, I’m a lesbian and I’ve experienced this with women too. Some people are really sensitive to constructive criticism especially during intimacy.

[–] swordofdamocles 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

especially during intimacy.

Well that does make sense when you think about it. That's when you're at your most vulnerable. I personally wouldn't mind because lust overpowers all of my other emotions during sex lmao. Though for some people, I think it would be best to talk about it after the deed is done.

[–] inv3r510n 2 points 1 month ago

Yup that’s definitely why. And a lot of people other than the hyper sexual have a lot of insecurities around sex even if they didn’t grow up in a culture that made it taboo.

[–] namarupa 7 points 1 month ago

This happens when providing suggestions to anyone about anything when you're dealing with an insecure person.