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[–] [email protected] 162 points 4 months ago (3 children)

The guy probably meant this in a misogininstic way but theres a reason why theres a male mental health crisis... not only are other people not taught how to treat men, men themselves dont know either

[–] Veneroso 46 points 4 months ago (2 children)

This. So many of our problems would be solved by saying that we love our sons and that we're proud of them.

Two things that I never heard from my Dad.

And he never heard them from his.

I don't fucking care. You find your son right now, look him in the eyes, tell him that you love him, and that you are proud of him.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Well one of main goals in life is not being like my dad. Long story(still ongoing somehow) but basically he ruined everything for us.

[–] TexasDrunk 25 points 4 months ago

The day I realized that we don't even know how to treat each other was a wild day for me. My friend group has been complimenting and building up each other for a while now. It's amazing the change you'll see just by having one dude say to another, "Hey, nice shirt my guy!" or something similar.

We opened for a national band tonight so a bunch of my friends were there. After having done this for a few years then reading this thread, I'm amazed to see just how much positive masculinity we had going on. There were compliments, talking up guys to others outside of just being a wingman (there was at least one case of being a wingman, too), lots of bro hugs, and a lot of genuinely happy guys.

It's a hard thing to get going, but I'm glad we started doing it.