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Congratulations, man! :)

Another vote for Discord. I mostly see it used to text chat. The vast majority of servers are not dating focused.

A caveat...I'm also in my 30s. Unfortunately, most Discord servers are filled with teens. But there are plenty of servers with adults in them as well. Just search for keywords like "21+," "25+", or "30+" and you're golden! Again unfortunately, it means you generally have to just look for a general purpose, age limiting server instead of ones based on hobbies or location. But works fine enough for chatting.

I am part of many servers, but I actually only talk to one that is made specifically of online friends I met in the days when forums were popular. But one of the servers I have in my list is for 25+ and seems pretty chill. I've never really chatted in there, but I can send you a link to it in a DM if you're interested.

Edit: I have nothing against teens. It's just awkward considering you're in vastly different life stages. It also just feels a bit creepy to me.

Do you wirelessly charge your device?

This is why I don't agree with the moneybro Redditors who seem to want you to put every penny into investing for retirement or working aggressively to pay down student loans or your mortgage...leaving little money to use for day to day enjoyment.

We have absolutely no idea how long we will live. I think there's a healthy balance between investing for the future and enjoying the now.

I'd be surprised if any celebrity was on Lemmy lol. It seems like it would be for everyone! That sounds pretty interesting to me!

Your last paragraph reads rather odd to me. Poly relationships exist but involve mutual consent. That's the reason why cheating in many cases is not at all ok. Because the other party doesn't consent to it and it's done in secrecy and deep violation of the person's trust. It's ok to have multiple partners or have sex with other people. You can too if you want to! But everyone involved has to agree with that kind of a setup for a relationship. Hiding it and hurting the other person is almost always immoral and wrong, even if it "feels good" to you. There are ways that all parties can consent to make your "feeling good" not hurting or taking advantage of others.

Ah I didn't know that! Interesting!

Ah ok yeah your first comment was sarcastic then haha

Maybe not quite, but iml it's certainly leaps and bounds better that altering your identity entirely in submission of a partner.

I bought a robot vacuum simply because I am incredibly lazy. Guess what? I'm often even too lazy to run the robot vacuum lol.

Sorry I'm not understanding what you mean

I would think it would be just as weird to collectively switch to matronymic last names as a society. It would make more sense to me if couples just decided which name they liked better and went with that, be it coming from the man or woman. So a more even split of that sort of pattern is what I mean.