ReiRose

joined 2 years ago
[–] ReiRose 11 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Therapy can give you the tools to navigate your own feelings and if you decide to make a connection the tools to navigate that. Someone objective with your best interests in mind that has experience with this will be a huge asset.

Dont feel obligated by societies expectations, just act in your best interests and set boundaries. Sorry it's such a vague response, but everyone is so different,and relationships are complex. Unloading onto a professional can really help.

[–] ReiRose -4 points 2 weeks ago

Go have a wank, you dont have to force someone else And if she touched you without consent that is sexual assault

I know I'm being a little hostile. My post does not mean that you, reader, are a terrible person. It just means that I am a little annoyed personally about this subject. For me it's fucking crystal clear.

dont force people

[–] ReiRose 19 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Yes and no. The two occasions for the flapper headband were under 12, and only because I was born in a village that loved to put on shows. Participation for children was mandatory to my memory.

I have not yet solved a murder mystery. There is still time. I have read the complete works of both Wilkie Collins and Arthur Conan Doyle, so I'm ready when opportunity presents.

[–] ReiRose 2 points 3 weeks ago

If a person takes two aircraft to a destination that's excessive. That's "fuck this planet and everyone on it, I've got mine and I'm fine" excessive

[–] ReiRose 53 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

These are just moods. I've been every single one of these wives based on my mood. I must be a nightmare to live with

[–] ReiRose 2 points 3 weeks ago

Despite this i would definitely have a cup of tea and philosophical discussion with Dostoyevski if given the chance.

[–] ReiRose 1 points 3 weeks ago

I agree with you. Relative truth is much more useful in real world arguments. This may be why I like the problem of evil so much, anything "sky-daddy" related to me is just a fun mind game.

[–] ReiRose 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I wonder if JetBlue'll try to bill him the $20k to repack it, or if they'll just eat it.

[–] ReiRose 4 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Dostoyevski would argue that having the child suffer so that everyone could go to heaven is wrong. Even if the child, the child's mother and the "free will" person that caused the suffering all hug and apologize and forgive in heaven, it's still not worth it.

[–] ReiRose 24 points 1 month ago (6 children)

One of my favourite discussions of the problem of evil is the chapter below. It's a discussion between two brothers regarding God and suffering in the world if the end result is eternal paradise. TW: child abuse, suffering and death. Children are used in the argument specifically because they don't deserve suffering, they are innocent according to Dostoyevsky (I easily agree).

https://philosophyintrocourse.com/the-course/part-2-does-god-exist-philosophy-of-religion/dostoyevskys-rebellion-chapter-from-the-brothers-karamazov/

It's heavy but worth the read imo, and not unnecessarily graphic.

 

Rather than paying a living wage, Broward college has decided to distribute food bags to their employees. 50 bags for 500 employees πŸ‘

(They do regularly do this for students too)

 

This article does a great job of explaining people's frustration with having to vote for Biden again. It's long, so here are some quotes. They're totally cherry-picked, I'd recommend reading the whole thing (especially if you think the problem started with Biden, and that Clinton and Obama were ever good choices).

during the 1980s and early 1990s, fears of a relentless Republican juggernaut pressured those left of center to take a defensive stance, focusing on the immediate goal of electing Democrats to stem or slow the rightward tide.

Today, the labor movement has been largely subdued, and social activists have made their peace with neoliberalism and adjusted their horizons accordingly. Within the women’s movement, goals have shifted from practical objectives such as comparable worth and universal child care in the 1980s to celebrating appointments of individual women to public office and challenging the corporate glass ceiling.

Each election now becomes a moment of life-or-death urgency that precludes dissent or even reflection. For liberals, there is only one option in an election year, and that is to elect, at whatever cost, whichever Democrat is running. This modus operandi has tethered what remains of the left to a Democratic Party that has long since renounced its commitment to any sort of redistributive vision and imposes a willed amnesia on political debate.

I mean, you probably should vote Biden this time, because he's not all that bad, he's done some good things. And trump is so terrible, it probably will be the end of democracy and the victory of fascism if he wins. Right? But what about in two years time, or four years, or eight years?

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This little guy chomped down on my pepper before burrowing underground.

 

I'm a nursing Mum, USA, and my work (transportation) is not protected by the pump act. https://www.usbreastfeeding.org/the-pump-act-explained.html I was told via email from HR that they "do not make accommodations for crewmembers." Legally they don't have to, so I applied for disability. It was denied with some accommodations for my return to work that needed clarification, but I didn't expect much more. I then started my return to work process, including a medical return to work form for my provider to complete. The provider used the exact same, cut and paste, language as the original request for disability form. My return to work has been denied because they cannot accommodate me. Local unions advice: break the rules. So, yes, lawyer up, of course. However, that will take months or years (like the Frontier case https://www.aclu.org/press-releases/settlement-reached-frontier-airlines-pregnancy-and-lactation-discrimination-lawsuit ) and I am running low on my savings.

So, despite ten years with my company, I will now lose my $50~/hr pay, schedule seniority, union Healthcare, tribal knowledge, skills etc and go to another company. All because I wanted twenty minutes every four hours to pump for my baby - some coworkers take longer shits.

Regular pumping avoids mastitis and maintains flow. Breastfed babies have less health problems in early years. Nursing mothers have lower instances of certain cancers. Formula is a great invention, but costs money, and just isn't a good fit for my family. https://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpao/features/breastfeeding-benefits/index.html

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