RBWells

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[–] RBWells 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You just do you. I think when people say "bad" they generally mean preachy. That is not most vegans. Just live your life, eat what you want, bring good food to potlucks so that you know you'll have something.

I will add that mentioning it is not preachy, if you get an overreaction it's not you. I am omnivorous and would want someone to tell me before a party or outing so that I don't accidentally invite them to a steakhouse or BBQ joint. I often make vegan food for potlucks just because it's sort of a baseline, most everyone can eat it.

[–] RBWells 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I honestly love it, even with 3 days of cooking and preparing, the chaos, the obligatory racist uncle, it's fun somehow in a way other holidays aren't. We do an all comers celebration, anyone who wants to show up is welcome so lots of family, family of my ex, family of my kids' boyfriends and girlfriends, sometimes people from work or friends of my kids. It's a satisfying hospitality effort I guess, and we have some good cooks in the family. There is a front porch, back deck, and back room for people who need quieter space, and those see use too - the point is not to push anything on anyone, only to have a good time.

[–] RBWells 1 points 2 weeks ago

You know what? Beer breath is horrible, but whiskey kisses quite nice. Whiskey does smell so good.

[–] RBWells 3 points 2 weeks ago

I loved it but I read fast. William Gibson books, in general, do start off sort of disjointed then begin to turn into a story, so I'd say read this one through but if you don't like it you probably don't like his writing style. Also, I read it when it was new so it was quite novel at that time, sure it is a different experience at this point in time.

[–] RBWells 2 points 2 weeks ago

We are a mirror of you. I like to cook, husband doesn't mind dishes so he does the after-dinner cleanup. But yeah same thing, he is good at things I am not good at. I do garden, household AV and tech, finances, all the cooking, he does kitchen, remembers to change the filters in the air conditioner, maintains the cars, we outsource a lot of the other cleaning.

[–] RBWells 2 points 2 weeks ago

Same here. I am an indifferent housekeeper at best, can manage to cook without absolutely wrecking the kitchen but no chance of remembering everything that ought to be done. Husband does know how to do all that but we both work and want some free time, she can do in 2.5 hours everything that would take both of us a whole day to accomplish. One of the best decisions we ever made.

[–] RBWells 1 points 2 weeks ago

No, I am not good at napping, it leaves me more tired, rather than refreshed. If possible, I do sleep in, though, stay in bed longer.

[–] RBWells 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Half a century! Happy birthday!

[–] RBWells 1 points 2 weeks ago

Ended up doing grapefruit vodka, home fermented ginger beer, and fresh grapefruit juice, it was good and did use all the grapefruit vodka up, also stayed sparkling all night, guess the fresh juice fed the ginger beer.

[–] RBWells 13 points 2 weeks ago

That's fine, I just want someone experienced to dose it like that. It was soft and pleasant. Really my first thought when I got home was that would be such a wonderful way to die. Not surprised or in pain, there's enough of that in life, at the end you shouldn't be worrying.

[–] RBWells 22 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Once I had to get a surgery, and in recovery was waking up, nurse thought it too soon and said "let's just dial this up" and put me back to sleep with a dose of whatever opiate was in the IV and that is absolutely the only way I'd want to do that. So gentle.

[–] RBWells 2 points 2 weeks ago

I have a friend who was my boss. He was, by all accounts, a mess of a micromanaging, push you until you drop kind of boss. He did personally more than any of us too, first in, last out, worked from home too. I personally just told him no, and did what I could reasonably accomplish, and didn't worry about his pushing. Always got good reviews, never got promoted but he did get me a big raise one year.

People still talk about him at work, but I still talk to him. He is an interesting person and a good friend just not a good boss - any boss should know most employees don't push back even if you tell them "tell me if it's too much"

OTOH, the witch of an HR lady, and the A/P manager who chewed his way through 3 entire staffs, they can burn in whatever hells they landed in.

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

Welcome to February, and congratulations to our January winner, @[email protected] !

For February, the challenge is to make a red drink that relates in some way to Valentine, the day, the martyr, whatever.

The rules remain the same - at least three ingredients, a novel recipe, a photo, directions on making it, and your review or impressions of the drink.

Winner gets glory and the chance to pick ingredients or theme for April's challenge.

MARCH challenge will be a novel cocktail of any sort that includes Irish Whiskey. Dust off that bottle of Jameson!

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submitted 10 months ago by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

Still needs a name, and a couple of adjustments I'll mention but wow. When I get a final recipe will post that too, or if you make it and have a recommendation let me know.

This is:

2 parts cognac

1 part Heirloom Pineapple Amaro

1 part roasted pineapple syrup from this drink

1 part fresh lemon

And because it was too sweet, 1 part Topo Chico.

I shook together the first 3 ingredients and it was mightily delicious but too sweet for my palate today, so I topped it with the fizzy water to dilute.

My thoughts - that roasted pineapple syrup is ridiculous, so sweet but so good, if you have a pineapple, make it. I should have increased the amount of pineapple when browning it and pulled some out for garnish, that would have made more sense both visually and taste-wise. I liked the mouth feel better without the Topo Chico, and not convinced it's really too sweet for most so definitely try first. Don't want to reduce the syrup it's so much of the flavor and texture. I won't do another round today, this is a one and done, but if doing again would chill the glasses, shake with less ice for more dilution, float the lemon slice in the glass, or maybe a lemon wedge, and most importantly, brown the pineapple for the garnish.

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Mint (self.cocktails)
submitted 10 months ago by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

I have a bunch of mojito mint in the garden but don't feel like a mojito! What else do you make with mint - I have a reasonably full cabinet of stuff so recommend away.

 

This is an interesting list and does have recipes for all of them.

 

I had a Friday cocktail of an adjusted paper plane:

2oz bourbon

1oz Aperol

1oz Amaro Nonino

1 spoonful Campari

1.75oz lemon (this was too much, the lemon was quite juicy and I wasn't drinking anything else tonight so put in all the juice of one whole lemon. I'd recommend a generous 1 oz.)

I always think I don't like Campari, it doesn't taste good. But a little bit into something already complex can improve it.

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Paloma! (www.tastingtable.com)
submitted 11 months ago by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

I am glad to see Jarritos won this taste test, that's hands down my favorite grapefruit soda for a Paloma.

Since they do not recommend any particular recipe:

I fill pint glass most of the way with ice, get out a cup measure (the kind you can pour from), measure 2oz tequila, one ounce fresh lime, fill the rest with the soda (about 4 oz, there's more room in there than exactly 8oz) and pour it over the ice. Delicious.

I do often make something like this too, wouldn't call it a Paloma but grapefruit and mezcal are fantastic together.

"Paloma" from bon appetit

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submitted 11 months ago by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

I have Shake and Strain, the app, but I never seem to use it, generally just either get inspired from a news post or the Imbibe magazine, or a restaurant drink; or just stand in front of the liquor cabinet thinking "what looks good?". When I have an unusual ingredient, Google it, and don't think about the app.

Do you have a drink app in your phone and do you use it?

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submitted 11 months ago by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

A little too sour!

2 oz cognac

1 oz lemon

1 oz Giffard Abricot

1 oz pineapple tepache

Needs adjustments but definitely getting there. Less lemon, Meyer lemon, or pineapple syrup instead of tepache, maybe. Fruit and cognac are so good together.

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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

I can't remember who was looking for cocktails to go with stir fry, but this one looks perfect. No, there is not Koji in the drink, nothing too complicated here, but the celery-soju-mezcal seems well suited for a meal of stir fry veg with sesame oil and soy flavors, or something peppery.

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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

A place to post recipes and links to recipes for delicious, complex, non intoxicating beverages.

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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

2024 has arrived! For January, the cocktail challenge is Kiwi and Mezcal. The rules are simple, a novel drink using these ingredients, most upvoted (not net votes) wins.

Rule change: winner may pick the next challenge (not the month immediately following, as that's not enough time to announce, but January winner can pick March challenge, and so on)

Post cocktails as replies to this thread. Post requirements are a photo, a recipe, tasting notes. Replies to recipe posts are allowed.

Enjoy!

February challenge will be a RED drink with a Valentine theme (broadly defined, love or martyrdom). Anything novel and any shade of red, must contain at least three ingredients but can be non alcoholic.

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submitted 11 months ago by RBWells to c/cocktails
 

2oz bourbon

1oz Giffard Abricot

1oz Heirloom Pineapple Amaro

1oz lemon juice

Shaken with ice

Very smooth. So smooth. I think next time I will try it with cognac and 3/4 oz of the apricot, and once with a rye whiskey before settling the recipe. It's balanced and delicious I just want to see if it can be better.

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