Ifera

joined 1 year ago
[–] Ifera 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Well, someone like you won over a homophobic teenager with kindness and a good faith discussion almost three decades ago. And that teen, once he stopped hating for half a second, found out that he was gay himself, so thank you for engaging with those voices.

I won't tell you to keep doing it, since it is exhausting and I can't tell you what to do, but know that those efforts are hardly a complete waste.

You're fantastic.

[–] Ifera 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sadly, this goes both ways. What some defend as a right and as a way to keep moral decay and corruption of the soul, is their "right" to purge the "blight" that homosexuality is in their communities, by all means necessary. And that is exactly how my "adopted" (not official but on a house-mom kinda way) little brother ended up in my country, chased away by his own flesh and blood.

What to us looks like bigotry and prejudice, to them it looks like community and fight against oppression, what to us looks like a holocaust, to them means keeping their community, values and way of life safe and preserved.

We do need to engage with them, to either make them realize that their hatred is fucking vile, or to at least be able to reach our kin in the other side of the divide, show them that there is a way and their existence is not a curse, and that they CAN escape to our side.

[–] Ifera 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Ifera 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Did you like, Just get unbanned or something? Coming back after two months to revive old threads, with accusations of people being biased.

Being raped is beyond horrible, clearly, no matter the gender relationship. Going to an anti-rape protest with a sign invalidating rape victims is fucked up too.

And, Where am I guilty of what you are doing? Where am I making excuses for rape apologists and sexists statements?

[–] Ifera 37 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Ancient vines, badly remade. More at 11.

[–] Ifera 14 points 2 months ago

Take this cream-filled donut, for it is my...

[–] Ifera 3 points 2 months ago

This took me a bit to undeerstand, but you're a fucking genius.

[–] Ifera 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This is the internet, you can say masturbation, you know.

[–] Ifera 5 points 2 months ago

Good, and I am sure as fuck glad to see I am not the only one taking notice. People love to bitch about groupthink, but they sure love to bleat.

[–] Ifera 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

According to the article, not really closeted but confused. Kinda sucks that you're getting demonized by people who didn't read the article or under context.

And a mod assuming intent, not very pretty.

[–] Ifera 49 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

Dumb fuck! (I also don't get it)

[–] Ifera 52 points 2 months ago
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submitted 4 months ago by Ifera to c/cooking
 

I want some help, according to what I did, this sauce seems to work but, from what I read, it seems like it shouldn't and I want to understand why it worked so I can duplicate the process.

I made some spicy chicken and fried it, recipe included sliced chichen breasts, seasonings and mayo, to keep it from drying out. Then when cooked, tossed them in a pot, added more mayo, flour, a bit of Red Oil, and milk.

Added some LKK chilli sauce, ginger, scallions and stirred. That chicken tasted glorious, but according to what I read, it should be curdling, not creamy.

In your opinion, Would this work or just be an abomination?

 

Does anyone know what this one is about?

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For real (lemmy.world)
submitted 6 months ago by Ifera to c/depression_now
 
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submitted 7 months ago by Ifera to c/cat
 

She is very ill, and might not make it through the night, so I thought a picture of her on a happy day would cheer me up, and perhaps others.

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