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Prime Minister Rishi Sunak has launched yet another attack at the trans community by saying that people “can’t be any sex they want to be.”

He made the remarks during his closing speech at the 2023 Conservative Party conference on Wednesday (4 October) afternoon.

At one point, Sunak said that people shouldn’t be “bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be” as he made clear his stance on trans people.

“We are going to change this country and that means, life means life. That shouldn’t be a controversial position. The vast majority of hard-working people agree with it,” he began. “We shouldn’t get bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be. They can’t,” – Rishi Sunak

“It also shouldn’t be controversial for parents to know what their children are learning in school about relationships.

“Patients should know when hospitals are talking about men or women,” which was met with a large applause.

He went on: “We shouldn’t get bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be. They can’t.”

“A man, is a man, and a woman, is a woman, that is just common sense,” he added, to yet more noise from Tories in attendance.

Many on social media site X (formerly known as Twitter) reacted to the comments, accusing Sunak of making “persistent attacks” and labelling him “disgraceful”. “A man, is a man, and a woman, is a woman”

One wrote in response: “Trying to distract people from his government’s corruption and incompetence by attacking some of the most vulnerable people in society. Vile.”

Needlessly stirring up hatred where it is unjustified to make a cheap political dig, before going on to claim the country is wonderful because of its tolerance. Disgraceful excuse for a PM,” another went on to add.

Sunak can go and do one. Pandering to middle class transphobes isn’t the election winner you think it is,” someone else echoed.

“The persistent attacks on not only one of the smallest but most at risk communities is vile. Absolutely disgusting party through and through including anyone who supports them,” a social media user weighed in.

It comes after Health Secretary Steve Barclay outlined plans yesterday (3 October) to ban trans women from accessing female NHS wards.

This has since been backed by other senior Tories such as Home Secretary Suella Braverman.

LGBTQ+ charity Stonewall criticised the announcement, labelling it a “cynical attempt to look busy” instead of actually improving women’s healthcare.

Addressing party members in Manchester, Mr Barclay said: “We need a common-sense approach to sex and equality issues in the NHS – that is why today I am announcing proposals for clearer rights for patients.

“And I can today confirm that sex-specific language has now been fully restored to online health advice pages about cervical and ovarian cancer and the menopause.

“It is vital that women’s voices are heard in the NHS and the privacy, dignity and safety of all patients are protected.”

The post Rishi Sunak says people ‘can’t be any sex they want to be’ in new swipe at trans community appeared first on Attitude.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 9 months ago

Oh great, so he isn’t just a massive bellend but also a transphobe, wonderful.

[–] [email protected] 52 points 9 months ago

Women's voices must be heard*

*Unless they're pro-LGBTQ women's voices, in which case they can stfu

Sunak is a grade A wanker

[–] samus12345 50 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Maybe not, but they can be any gender they want to be.

[–] NightAuthor 4 points 9 months ago

Also worth noting though, there are more than 2 sexes.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 9 months ago (3 children)

How is this helping him in any capacity?

[–] [email protected] 48 points 9 months ago

Distraction from actual issues

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago

The mum's net vote I imagine.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Playing on the fear of people and attitudes different to themselves is one of the Tories' main ways of getting votes.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Has anyone stopped these assholes to ask why they even care? Of all the hills to die on, this is the dumbest conservative talking point and they've got everyone talking about (obviously the plan) but can't we just dissolve all of that by demanding that they justify their faux outrage?

[–] samus12345 29 points 9 months ago

Easy target of a very small minority that can be mined for outrage.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago

Because hating on ~1% of the population, a lot of whom won't vote for you anyway, doesn't lose you many votes.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago

We shouldn’t get bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be. They can’t

They can't

Sounds like a challenge for transhumanist tech to solve 😎✊⚧️Ⓐ💻.

(Other people have covered the factual incorrectness here - the short of it is that (1) gender =/= sex and (2) "sex" isnt some monolithic thing but a complex, multi-axis thing itself - most of these axes are changeable to various degrees as well ^.^)

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Hitler thought the same way.

You guys need to flush the #Tories completely in this upcoming election.

[–] 13esq 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

You're expecting that labour would be politically further in your favour. How optimistic.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Don't do that "they're just as bad as each other" thing, Labour are clearly not this bad, and fortunately there are other parties to vote for!

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[–] dpkonofa 18 points 9 months ago

It’s almost a game at this point where you can spot the bad actors because they’re constantly using gender and sex interchangeably and pretending they’re the same thing yet you know that they’re definitely educated enough to know the difference.

[–] guriinii 16 points 9 months ago

These lot need putting in one of their seven bins.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago (1 children)

How long til we can vote the tories out?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Their term ends in January 2025 but Sunak will call an election before winter when it's too cold to go door knocking and flyering so likely in the Autumn meaning there will be another year of this madness.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago

What a knob.

[–] kaitco 15 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

I need someone to make that meme of Mr Bean looking over that dude’s shoulder with Mr. Bean labeled as Sunak and the other dude as the American GQP. (Nvm, I’ve got it done: https://imgflip.com/i/81flvk)

I’m not sure I understand why the Tories insist on taking leaves straight out of the US ultra hard right Maga playbook on these things. This is one of those areas where the UK should be separating themselves away from what we’re dealing with in the US. Instead, it seems as if y’all Brits are really digging your heels in on trans issues when there are so many other issues on the agenda (this is the case in the US as well, so trust, I can fully appreciate the frustration).

From my best understanding, this is Sunak’s appeal towards hoping that he and all the Tories are run out of office during your next general election, but dang! This has got to be the most asinine take I’ve seen…since yesterday (things are perfectly inane in the US government at the moment).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

I’m not sure I understand why the Tories insist on taking leaves straight out of the US ultra hard right Maga playbook

Because they're both playing from the Russian asset playbook.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It’s just hit me; this election cycle is their Lovely Horse. They’ve mined what they can from the coffers for now, and have no interest in presiding over the next few years of absolute fuckery, so they’ve got Dougal on keys and Jack on backing, and are fixing for a gracious defeat.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

They don't need to have an election until late January 2025.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Yeah, but they’re laying the groundwork now.

[–] Sdot 12 points 9 months ago

Fuck this guy.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago (1 children)

What the fuck.

WHAT THE FUCK

[–] NickwithaC 17 points 9 months ago

Out of touch man parrots out of touch opinions he thinks are held by people he thinks might vote for him.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

Yes they fucking can you absolute cockwomble.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

“It is vital that women’s voices are heard in the NHS and the privacy, dignity and safety of all patients are protected.”

As if the PM's and his peers' comments were not enough to clearly show that they don't care about the people: just yesterday, U.S. company Palantir closed in on the UK health data contract with the NHS as per Bloomberg. So where is this privacy and dignity?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Okay, someone please help me understand as I genuinely want to.

I fully understand gender neutral (I am bringing up my own children to not restrict their behaviour and personalities due to gender norms because of the the sex they were assigned at birth), I understand being born 'male' but feeling more like the societal definition of a 'girl' in terms of both physical and social characteristics. I understand the difference between sex and gender.

I understand and believe that our body is our own and if somebody wants to change their body they should be able to do so as they see fit, including changing it to meet the societal norms in terms of appearance of another sex.

But here is what I don't fully grasp (but would like to) - why is it wrong to say that those born with a biologically male body should go to the male ward in a hospital? Isn't that where they would receive the best treatment for themselves? Aren't gender pronouns useful when distinguishing between biological differences in the medical field?

I don't mean any offense to anybody with these questions. I fully support everyone's right to identify as anywhere on the spectrum of the social construct of gender. Also, if there is a more suitable community for me to ask these questions in, please do share it.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago (4 children)

As someone who is not LGBTQ+ but is trying to understand it myself, the biggest key to "getting it" is separating sex and gender. Sex would be your biological make up, regardless of genital configuration. That's your classic XX vs XY vs the rare "non-standard". It's important to note that there are multiple types of different physical configurations that are "male or female" - Anatomical, Hormonal, Chromosomal, and Cellular - and they frequently do not line up 100%.

Gender is separate from this as a mental construct/thought pattern. For most people, these two things line up, and that is your standard Cis person. A Trans person is where their mental configuration does not match their physical configuration. When this causes significant mental distress we call it gender dysphoria. For the rest, we call it being Trans, non-Binary or something else.

Isn’t that where they would receive the best treatment for themselves? Aren’t gender pronouns useful when distinguishing between biological differences in the medical field?

Why would there be a difference between gendered wards in the quality of the care? Health care is tailored to the patient, where in the hospital they are located shouldn't affect it.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Hi, I'm a nurse so let me chime in here from direct experience.

those born with a biologically male body should go to the male ward in a hospital? Isn't that where they would receive the best treatment for themselves? Aren't gender pronouns useful when distinguishing between biological differences in the medical field?

NOPE! Unequivocally NOPE. We don't separate hospital wards based on gender (in the US). Your gender has absolutely zero fuck all not one thing to do with your general biology and medical care. Doesn't change or impact what we do in the least regarding your internal organs - heart, kidneys, lungs, all get approached the same.

What does change what we do is your weight which affects medication doses. And in very, very, very niche specific situations the anatomy of your genitals changes what we do. (Say, if you're having a problem urinating, the length of your urethra and any potential obstacles like a prostate will matter.)

But see, here's the things about that: We can't approach the genital anatomy of two different individuals who both identify as male with the exact same treatment plan. The exact things we do are hyperspecific to the particular anatomy of that individual person. So if we're dealing with a trans woman who didn't have bottom surgery and still has a vestigial penis, then it doesn't make any difference that she's trans. We need to approach the anatomy that is present in front of us, whatever shape and condition it's in regardless of the sociological characteristics of the person to whom the anatomy is attached.

I think part of the confusion in the general public with medical care is the assumption that everyone who identifies as the same gender as you has very similar anatomy to you. Let me tell y'all, I have seen more genitals than a Las Vegas prostitute, and there is more variation than I would ever have imagined. You can't go by a person's stated gender and know exactly what you're gonna get, even if that person is cis. The number of times you lift that gown on somebody and go, "What the fuck is going on here?!" that has nothing to do with a person being trans or not, y'all just have no idea lol.

All medical care is approached specifically toward you as an individual person. Your particular responses to medications (which we can't predict by the way - there's an absurd amount of educated trial and error involved) and your particular anatomy. And 90% of the time, the response to anatomical variations is just "Huh, that's unusual. Anyway, you can pee without any problems, right? Ok good idgaf ¯\_(ツ)_/¯"

The only time your sociological characteristics come into play is when I'm talking to you about your life, providing education, trying to understand your obstacles to medical care.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Only term as prime minister speedrun any%

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Gonna take some to beat Liz Truss for that record.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I wonder how that cabbage is doing now...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Lettuce, but yeah.

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