Privacy has become a very important issue in modern society, with companies and governments constantly abusing their power, more and more people are waking up to the importance of digital privacy.
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So it is either closed-source with promised encryption (not verifiable) and a lot of meta data collection or open-source without encryption. Tough call. Signal would be best of both worlds, but it seems to be no alternative for you.
Since I don't trust Meta with anything, I would use Telegram if I had to. But I would absolutely not be happy with it.
Try to convince the people around you to use Signal.
How does one convince people to use Signal when nobody else around them has it?
I did the same some years ago. Just deleted WhatsApp and told everyone I was either available via Signal/Threema or via SMS/Mail. Most of my friends installed Signal alongside WhatsApp over the following weeks.
And this "worked" in a country with over 90 % WhatsApp users ;-).
Just let them know you don't want Facebook having anything more on you than they already do. Let them know it has everything people want in messaging apps like stickers (whatever the heck those are?!), GIFS, video and phone calls, groups, etc.
Neither
Overall, use Signal, but telegram has more features than WhatsApp. So much that WhatsApp at this point is just copying telegram.
Signal?
There is a reason I said if I HAD to use those, because unfortunately people in the US are extremely lazy to switch to a different app as most people just stick with iMessage or Google/Samsung Messages, but if they were to have another app it would very likely be Whatsapp or Telegram, not Signal.
Thanks for the clarification. Yeah, I see the problem. I suppose getting new US friends is out of the picture too? Lol
I have to use WhatsApp for business because that is what my colleagues are wedded to. But I hate the fact that it is part of Meta, I cancelled by FB account 5 years ago and it bugs me that this last tie remains. I have however successfully migrated my whole family to SIGNAL which is vastly better than WhatsApp or Telegram, and certainly more transparent.
How did you get your family and friends to migrate to Signal
In my experience if you actually are decent friends with people sticking to your guns is enough.
Yes, you may feel like the dick if they ask you to "just use whatsapp, everyone does!", but in the end most people will install a free app to keep in contact with family and friends
About two years ago my gf and I just informed everyone that we would be switching in a week. We gave a few reasons why and linked to a local news article of a recent data breach. I recommend making the switch right after a big scandal because it makes it a lot easier to understand for people that don't follow FOSS or privacy news. We let them know how to contact us on Signal or through SMS. We were actually surprised by how many people installed Signal because of us, already had it installed or were actually already exclusively on Signal but we didn't have them as a contact yet. I think in the end I have about half of my contacts migrated but that also counts for 90% of the people I care about talking to regularly.
I did pretty much the same thing. I have been wanted to migrate away since Facebook acquired it, then I joined the small exodus after their privacy policy changes around 2y ago. Likewise, it's much easier to convince others to join Lemmy now, thanks to Reddit API controversy than it was at any other random time before.
I converted around 10 people to Signal as well. Basically since I deleted my WhatsApp account, either they would create their Signal accts, or we wouldn't have an instant messaging channel. They still use mostly WhatsApp with others, but at least they run Signal alongside.
I wish Signal was more dependable and had better mainstream features so more people would switch and stick around. The fact the Desktop client doesn't sync message history, the app sometimes not notifying people, and unreliable voice or video calls were concerns that I heard or experienced so far.
What do you mean by
better mainstream features ?
Signal still has a "practical" feature disparity compared to Telegram and WhatsApp. Personally I don't care about many of these newer features, but the mainstream public a lot of times does. Signal was the last one to implement stories and stickers for example, which might seem silly, but I know people who considered this lack as "cons" back then and that got in the way when convincing them to switch.
And for some features it does implement, one can make the argument they're objectively worse than its counterparts. Half the times I tried audio or video calls the lag made it impossible to continue and we had to switch to Google Meet. Likewise, the security feature of the desktop app not retrieving chat histories means that every few months I end up losing it on my desktop or laptop if I log back in after some tie. I put up with that, but because I really like Signal as a privacy-respecting project.
As for a Telegram comparison, their support and features for groups is really unmatched.
I say these things as a donor to Signal, so I really wish this will change, but I have to admit the features arrive late and are still not quite there yet.
Which is why I've lost online contact with a handful of my family. I don't get the mentality of only using one messenger. It's not like SMS, you can have 10 messengers installed.
Uninstall Whatsapp so they can't contact you. If you are important enough they will donwload an alternative lol
“Im leaving whatsapp. either install / contact on signal or youll just have to use oldschool SMS”
Telegram. For most stuff, especially public groups, e2ee is vastly overrated.
What matters more is that the Telegram clients are fully open-source and accessible from a more trust worthy 3rd party on F-Droid. With WhatsApp you have basically no idea what the closed client is really doing on your device and you are also stuck with Googles user tracking via the Playstore.
In addition (at least for now), Telegram has a pretty open API, meaning that you can connect to it with alternative clients and bridges easily and without much risk of getting your account banned. Due to this there are many nicely working 3rd party integrations and overall you are much less held hostage by the main provider as in the case of WhatsApp.
I use signal now but was using Telegram prior.
I don't like either but I would use Whatsapp. Because of the encyption reasons you stated. Even if Whatsapps encryption is compromised, Telegram doesn't even have any.
Telegram does, just not by default
Matrix.
I would use Telegram, even if there was no E2EE because the WhatsApp app collects more data. The Telegram app privacy section in the App Store says that it only collects data for "App Functionality", while WhatsApp collects more data and uses it for ads, tracking, and "other purposes". That said, both of these apps are bad and I would not send anything sensitive using them. With how bad Facebook is, I would not be surprised if WhatsApp had a backdoor. Even iMessage or RCS would be better than these apps (but of course Signal is the best).
if only Apple was willing to support RCS instead of shitty SMS there would be a cross platform service but until then (probably never knowing Apple) we have to rely on third party apps.
In terms of Tech and Ops, definitely Telegram.
In terms of prevalence (user and market share), WhatsApp.
I find for these kinds of apps user prevalence and market share are a lot less relevant. You're generally going to use it to talk to people you know personally, so it's really a question of whether your friends are willing to use a particular app or not.
I prefer signal, but if I had to use WhatsApp or telegram, I would go with Whatsapp. Facebook having all your metadata sucks, but at least your messages aren't stored on their servers for ever and it uses the signal protocol.
none of them
I would never use WhatsApp since it's associated with Facebook and Mark Zuckerberg which is the creepiest (celebrity) human alive I belive. If him and Elon Musk had a baby, it's over for humanity.
Anyway, I use telegram now but was impressed by Element when I tried it. It's a client for Matrix and it's both live chat in public channels and private conversions in one app. Also I love that it's matrix underneath the good looking surface.
I like Element a lot, but my friend group has decided we aren't moving from Telegram for text and self hosted Teamspeak for voice until a single self hosted solution can do both just as well (or at least close enough).
Sadly, Element's voice features aren't there yet.
If you have to use one of the two listed I'd say WhatsApp with disappearing messages only as you will have most people and if you are in Europe or south america it is everywhere.
I can only recommended signal that was tested in the us courts and the only thing the could provide was the sign up date for the account I believe
I assume both services harvest and sell data. As a Usonian, a foreign service is less likely to be able to act on the data they harvest about me. I guarantee meta sells the social graph gleaned from e2ee communications to a data broker who then sells it to the CIA etc al.
Even if you have no privacy concerns I would say Telegram is a much better choice. The fact you still can't edit a message in WhatsApp is baffling.
I don't understand in what way "editing a message" improves anything. It's always just implemented in a way that's similar to sending a new message "please disregard the previous message and show the edited message instead" - there are no guarantees on the protocol level.
For what end do you want to make your choice?
Like many said, whatsapp has a huge userbase, which is the foundation for a IM-app. However, telegram totally blows the compitision out of the water when it comes to features / UI / API access. But there are other alternatives - depending on your usercase: Signal - not as userfriendly, but the encryption and meta-data retention is unpararelled. Matrix-chat - even less userfriendly than Signal, but does match the API access of Telegram and a huge amount of clients, which can satisfy most user-needs (even outside of traditional IM:ing).
Do note - Telegram is not encrypted by default. This was a conscious design of the company running it, so you can easily access your chats accross different devices. And they use a home-made encryption protocol, which is a very bad idea. So don't rely on Telegram for anything that remotely requires confidentiality.
My choice is easy: Certainly not WhatsApp as their T&C state they pass metadata up to Facebook. Telegram I'm pretty happy with, as I like their silent send / scheduled send, and also massive groups (like my community has a group on it). I'm happy with their being banned more than once, that they're not actually selling user data.
But I also use Signal, Briar, Threema, Nostr, XMPP with OMEMO, etc depending on who I'm connected with.
Signal
Telegram does give secret chats which are E2E encrypted. I do find more use WhatsApp over Telegram though.
WhatsApp is owned by Meta, so although messages themselves are encrypted they'll still be collecting as much data from you elsewhere.
I prefer to use Telegram, it's a much nicer experience and offers better UI customisation.
If you had to choose 1, I'd go for where most of your friends/family are as it'll get the most use.