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I noticed quite a few older unhinged people with upside down smiles. Like :( and that is their default facial expression. What is the reason behind this?

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[–] sircac 4 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The title asks about age-related change, but then the post body just talks about unhinged people. Are the two interchangeable?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

May you live long enough to become completely unhinged.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago
[–] Acamon 37 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As people age their faces sag due to changes in skin elasticity (and also often gaining weight), this can lead to a "resting sad face" compared with perky youngsters. But, as a middle aged person, I've also started to notice that I often get absorbed in my thoughts and realise I'm sitting there with a thousand yard stare and a drawn facial expression I associate with being sad or very sick or very hungover.

But inside I'm not sad, I'm just thinking about something I need to do or whatever, but I feel like I need to consciously "inhabit" my body again and "power up" my facial muscles so I look thoughtful, or determined or something rather than a blank "my family has just died in a car crash and I can't decide whether to call the ambulance or kill myself with a shard of broken windscreen" expression.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

further to this, we tend to get greater responsibilities as we age, and they're no fucking fun, are they?

watch out kids - don't grow up, it's a TRAP (and not the good kind). Still, it's mostly mental, a lot of the time

[–] PahdyGnome 3 points 1 day ago

Peter Pan may have been a psychopath but he sure had a point

[–] El_guapazo 2 points 1 day ago

Fish lips happen from a general unhappiness.

[–] RBWells 3 points 1 day ago

Oh the chubby cheeks to jowls slide is real, and I think that's part of it. Also lower teeth showing more than upper.

[–] thermal_shock 4 points 1 day ago

Huh, stupid questions do exist lol.

Old people, then "unhinged" people...

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

they have faced tough moments in their lives :)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

After a while you have seen it all and it takes extra energy to find the funny. Finding the funny is harder when you sleep poorly and your body ages.

That said, finding the funny is absolutely worth every effort, it's just that sometimes it's hard work.

Source: age

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

yes! sleep gets worse Dunnit? and that makes everything a bit shitter than needes

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sleep .. I cannot remember the last time I had eight hours uninterrupted. Last night I managed 5.5 hours in three shifts. That was an improvement on the night before.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

tough crowd...

somehow 6 feels great, if you can get it but usually my sinuses cave in screwing everything up

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Older with upside down smiles and happen to be unhinged when examined closely

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Stress and fear will do that to you unfortunately