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this happens in a public park.

first time this happens to me afaik. I was just stretching with black leggings and a t-shirt. I noticed him 100 yards away walking around but always looking at me. Upon making eye contact he would look away but as soon as I turned to stretching, he'd look at me.

He started slowly approaching me and at one point stood at like 15 yards from me, but still separated by a fence. At that point I decided to cut my work out short and left avoiding eye contact.

I consider myself lucky because he didn't follow me.

What scared me the most is he was bigger and taller than me.

If this ever happened to you, how did you react? How do I react next time this happens?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

Give em a toot n' wink ๐Ÿ˜‰

But in all seriousness, if there were other women around then call that shit out. If its just you stay safe and call a friend/pretend that they're meeting you.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

I highly recommend this channel. But this video in particular is topical.

https://youtu.be/rUM_kIVjT_Q

[โ€“] db2 -5 points 6 days ago

At first I was like there's nothing wrong with looking, but it went beyond looking. Does the park have cameras? If not, consider bringing one or two but actually take the time to make them functional to a cloud dvr of some kind. Then place them in super obvious places by you.

It sucks to need to do extra things but it's better to be safe regardless.

[โ€“] [email protected] -5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

"Take a picture; it will last longer!"

[โ€“] db2 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You're giving permission to expand his spank bank that way. Not recommended.

[โ€“] [email protected] -3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Do you typically get permission before privately enjoying a photo of an attractive person?

[โ€“] db2 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm not a weird creeper so that question is a non sequitur.

[โ€“] [email protected] -4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Weird creeper or not, why does it matter if anyone has that kind of permission?

[โ€“] db2 1 points 5 days ago

Username checks out.

[โ€“] [email protected] -5 points 6 days ago

Excrete explosive diarrhoea on the spot, and film it and put it on a prank channel on youtube.

[โ€“] [email protected] -4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Call him out loudly and publicly.

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[โ€“] foggy -3 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Fart loudly? Idk.

So this answer might come off the wrong way. I wanna start by saying that the reality sucks, and I'm sorry it's that way and we should all work to better it. That having been said...

A conventionally attractive woman in yoga pants doing yoga in public will catch eyes like a man wearing a speedo at a water park. It's stupid, it sucks, but it is what it is. The best way to avoid it is unfortunately to not do it. Especially if that gawking is feeling like more than gawking, and you're concerned for your safety.

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