Also: "Is this humor?"
I take a weird amount of pleasure in hearing people laugh at something homo/transphobic or racist, and asking "Oh, I love jokes, especially inside ones, what's the joke here?"
Plenty of people actually try to explain "why" it's funny but it just wraps around to "I find racist things funny especially if it's against my preferred group to target"
And if they try to bring their "version" of statistics into an argument, I go "OH so you find incorrect numbers funny? I get it." and then make up some bullshit that disparages something they're likely to enjoy to make it seem like a bad thing, and laugh.
LPT: take some improve classes that make you go out of your comfort zone, you can have a LOT of fun messing with people when you're more practised at ad-libbing and being in uncomfortable situations.
Or other LPT: don't, and save the energy.