this post was submitted on 11 Jul 2023
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[–] jimmyjoners 95 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Guys, I'm starting to think the problem is me...

[–] MetaPhrastes 39 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I totally relate to this. I didn't like the environment on R*ddit, but here people are much nicer, so the addiction is even worse!

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 years ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Guys, if you have asthma, ignore Lemmy at all costs. Everyone's breathtaking.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Get off my lawn!!!

There, did that help?

[–] flameguy21 10 points 2 years ago

You asked nicely, so I'll just get off your lawn. Sorry.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] flagellum 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You're the problem, it's you?

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[–] irmoz 5 points 2 years ago

Yeah, i really thought I'd spend a lot less time scrolling without reddit

First couple days, sure... then i started to find more and more axtive communities, and couldn't help but keep logging in

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I'd upvote, but your at 69 so I won't. If it changes: wasn't me, I swear!

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Oh man my Lemmy addiction is much stronger because I'm actually participating as opposed to lurking on Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago

Same. I stopped frequently commenting on reddit when the site became filled with outrage-bait and various agenda-pushing.

Lemmy feels more user-driven and authentic, so I'm participating a ton more.

[–] whereisk 5 points 2 years ago

How dare you speak for me?...

Bloody hell, I haven't participated this much for at least a decade.

[–] NeoAgostosTheos 37 points 2 years ago (3 children)

The positive interaction on Lemmy is what keeps me coming back. On reddit, I have about 15 comments in 10 years.

[–] flagellum 19 points 2 years ago

Hey fuck you and your stupid opinion! I'm smarter and technically correct on this one obscure point that you weren't making! And it's spelled "for all intents and purposes," dipshit!

Crap, sorry. Those Reddit habits die hard.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I have like 400 comments in 5 weeks here across multiple accounts. It's crazy how non-intimidating commenting feels.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I have like 80,000 total Reddit Karma on an 11-year-old account.

In four weeks on Kbin I've already gotten 3,100 reputation. It's just a much nicer community than Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's the size for sure. I don't think I've ever gone thread to thread and seen the same people on reddit. But her eon the fed, I'm actually surprised to see the same few names pop up here and there.

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[–] ProfessorLupinstein 35 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The vibe here is so good though. I'm really glad to be here.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

I'm also glad you're here.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I'm liking Lemmy more because the last few years of Reddit were just so filled with dumbfucks that missed obvious jokes/sarcasm and had shitty comments to make on questions, it was bumming me out. I can ask questions and get answers. I can make a joke and people get it (it might suck, still, but they understand it's a joke). I feel like this is where people who can, and actually do, read and understand everything before responding are hanging out.

[–] Vupperware 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It’s an interesting quandary.

There is an inherently higher quality to posts and comments in smaller communities. It’s something many people value.

People flock to the high-quality offerings, and as a result, the quality decreases.

Is there a way to get the best of both worlds, whilst still maintaining A “free speech” ethos?

Typically, enforcing quality standards requires heavy and overbearing moderation that makes the interactions feel artificial.

^ if you can crack that code, you’d be sitting on a goldmine.

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[–] RhetoricalOrator 6 points 2 years ago

" I feel like this is where people who can, and actually do, read and understand everything before responding are hanging out."

Don't worry, me and other new users will get that corrected ASAP!

But for real, the users and vibe here seem far less caustic and I'm enjoying it. It's been a nice journey recognizing that I want hooked on Reddit because of content so much as because of the dopamine hit I got from endlessly scrolling through a lot of low effort content.

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[–] xfts 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago

I left Reddit because of the enshitification, not the doomscrlling.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago

The post volume is still much lower, but that isn't all bad, since the toxicity and quality isn't as bad and unlimited scroll time isn't healthy.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago

This hits so close to home

[–] Thitherwards 8 points 2 years ago

It's new and fresh, and everyone so nice and friendly, what not to like?)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

I thought Lemmy would just take over my mobile usage, and I would still visit reddit on desktop. Turns out I'm just using Lemmy on both because the vibe here is more fun.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Yup Lemmy is going great right now, in a way I'm thankful for spez being such a RETARD because I only found Lemmy from this bs he pulled. I'm sure it's gonna be bigger than Reddit was

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (3 children)

NO, those are baseless allegations spread by the deep state, I am in no way affiliated to Spez (or his mother)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Ok sir, seems legit, sorry to bother you

[–] SpezHater69 3 points 2 years ago

You better not be ;)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oh god, this reminds me, is there already a community dedicated to thalassophobia here on Lemmy?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I found one on Lemmy.world, has a few posts but the fear hasn't kicked in yet.

[–] Crazyslinkz 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Take my up vote... now back to scrolling

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Remember to comment when you have something you think is interesting to say.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

There’s always a bigger fish.

[–] TheHighRoad 5 points 2 years ago

Not shown is the even bigger "Talking about Reddit on Lemmy" leviathan.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This post has inspired me to go do something productive instead.

..see you in an hour, max.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

See you when that moment happens when you mindlessly click on your Lemmy app because you’re bored, and suddenly it’s open again.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

1️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ true ℅

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

This is the way

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