All communities, no matter how friendly, will eventually grow toxic. Though right now it's mostly just shitheads from Reddit thinking that this is their new home for their tomfuckery. Life instantly gets better when you block them.
this post was submitted on 19 Jan 2024
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Definitely has gotten worse. I even resorted to blocking users who do nothing but antagonize others
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Now you've made an enemy for life, buddy.
The enemy of my enemy... also enemy.
Part of it is the paranoia about what people perceive as trolls or shills, combined with thinking that their opinions are a matter of life and death. I've seen people here talk about the old internet and I think what helped back then were communities were generally smaller, more tight-knit, and there was a greater separation between the internet and "real life". I can't fault people for being paranoid when many governments and corporations have added the internet as a platform where messaging must be controlled.
There have been media works that point out that the internet, although allowing people to connect from all the way around the world, paradoxically isolates us. This is something we can at least partially mitigate by giving others the benefit of the doubt and not be so quick to dismiss and antagonize. While it is tough to respond kindly to someone who insults you, sometimes doing so can have a disarming effect on them.
Lemmy is so much smaller than other networks I really doubt there are many shills here.
I've noticed the comments becoming more and more hostile and a lot more argument than discussion recently.