I need some relationship advice. I suggested 125% but my wife won't budge from 10%. Is this normal? How did it go when you had this conversation with your romantic partner?
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"Is this normal?"
No, it is not normal to state what percent-better-person you would leave your romantic partner for. It's cynical and narcissistic.
What if your partner is in an accident that changes how they look or live? Now that they're X% "less" than what you signed on for, you can just dip?
Like I get being upfront about stuff, but this is just transactional. It's not about your commitment to another person, it's about maximizing your return on investment.
You could have answered my question a bit earlier, I broke my nose this morning and now her divorce lawyer has informed me that my neighbor across the street has gone up to 12% better than me.
EDIT: I just went over and broke the guy's kneecaps and am now happily married again.
Mozel tov, may your love enemy forever crawl on his belly
And wait till they start disagreeing on if that person is really "75%" better. I bet you this guy is single
This Eliezer Yudkowsky. He wrote a bunch of nerd fanfiction, and is apparently mostly famous for his takes on AI. He is a public figure.