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In the last 5 to 10 years everything seems to suck: product's and services quality plummeted, everything from homes to cars to food became really expensive, technology stopped to help us to be something designed to f@ck with us and our money, nobody seems to be able to hold a job anymore, everyone is broke. Life seems worse in general.

Why? Did COVID made this happen? How?

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[–] [email protected] -3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

Because most people have stopped giving a fuck.

I'm serious. Remember all those memes a couple of years back about not giving any fucks? Their chickens are now coming back to roost.

A lot of people have simply decided that it was no longer worth the effort to try and be a good person, and to just shut themselves off and take care of their own needs. And perhaps it was necessary at the time because they were simply tired of putting in effort while others decided to take and take and give nothing back, but clearly, this isn't a viable long term solution. The Roots put it quite well in their song How I Got Over:

Out on the streets, where I grew up
First thing they teach you is not to give a fuck
That type of thinking can't get you nowhere
Someone has to care

The less people care, the colder the world grows. If no one does anything charitable, every interaction becomes a matter of win or lose. Now I'm well aware of just how difficult it is to be kind in a world full of greed where everyone seems to want to take advantage of you the moment you show any sign of weakness, but unfortunately, that is the only way anything will ever change.

For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?
Do not even the tax collectors do the same?
And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others?
Do not even the tax collectors do so?
Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.

Matthew 5:46-48

[–] Woht24 12 points 10 months ago (5 children)

I really liked your comment until you dropped a Bible verse.

[–] DingoBilly 7 points 10 months ago

Yep.. Turns the post from somewhat interesting/meaningful to preachy and judgemental.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I'm not religious, but I think that was a justified bible quote, it describes the point made, and theres even an alternative example. I get that religion has done a bunch of bad things, but that was a harmless quote.

[–] Woht24 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

There's never a justified Bible quote and for you to say that and not be religious is bizarre.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Eh, I can see your point, and the commentor also mentioned jesus in another comment, which is weird and annoying, but I think in the original comment it was being used as a way to show that this idea has been around for a very long time, and give more credence to their point.

I would certainly never quote the bible, and it is kinda weird, but I don't think its bad enough to be worth discarding their main message.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Well I'm sorry that upset you, but doesn't the song more or less convey a similar message?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

It does. That person is an absolute clown.

[–] Woht24 0 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

It didn't upset me haha. I'm saying you seemed intelligent and I agreed with your point and then you drop some Jesus on me. May as well be preaching the flat earth or the lizard people.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

So you're saying you'll accept the same message when it comes from a black man, but not when it comes from a Middle Eastern man?

IDK, sounds kinda racist if you ask me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

Or maybe we need better solutions than expecting people to allow themselves to be abused. 🤷