It's a big milestone of accomplishment in my life, but I feel weird just telling family members or my online friends about it. The only other people who know are my coworkers because we all got the same raise. Money doesn't go as far nowadays due to crazy inflation post COVID and my area has higher cost of living than where I grew up, but I'm still very happy about this. I remember back when I used to only make minimum wage. All those years of schooling eventually made their way back to me. I'll never make as much money as someone like a doctor, but it's definitely enough for me to live comfortably as a single person.

Anyway, I'll delete this in a bit (or sooner if it gets removed by a mod), but I hope you guys out there have a good weekend.

Edit: Thank you guys very much :)

Edit 2: Jeez there are so many more comments than I expected. You guys are so nice!!

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I'm gonna double down on your advice and say don't tell anyone how much you make, except your SO. If someone asks just say "I'm doing well for myself." And if they press you say "I prefer to keep the specifics private". When I started bringing in money I made the mistake of calling my friends to celebrate and within months they were all hitting me up for cash and pulling on my heartstrings.

[–] SendMePhotos 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Damn that's a real thing?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

Yeah, sadly. I get messages like "Hey Kit, I'm $50 short on my heating bill this month. Can you help me out?" All the time. A lot of passive aggressive stuff too like people complaining about money but not straight up asking for it until I give 50 "Damn that sucks"s.