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Another player who was at the table during the incident sent me this meme after the problem player in question (they had a history) left the group chat.

Felt like sharing it here because I'm sure more people should keep this kind of thing in mind.

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[–] EmpathicVagrant 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It’s a big case of “I don’t like myself as I am and this person with a disability accepts themself so there must me something wrong with me; I’ll take it out on them!” Style projection

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

No, it's argued agaibst because it doesn't make any sense logistically or economically.

And no, handwaving it away because "it's a fantasy setting, realism doesn't matter" is not an argument. There's a thing called suspension of disbelief, which requires a settng to be internally consistent.

[–] EmpathicVagrant 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I’m responding specifically to the difficulty some folks have, with understanding why a disabled person wouldn’t want to be ‘fixed’.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The issue is that in a setting with access to healing magic, you generally wouldn't suffer from a disability long enough for it to be part of your identity

[–] EmpathicVagrant 1 points 11 months ago

Again, my comment wasn’t responding to the magical rpg aspect at all, just the person who doesn’t want their disability to be addressed in any way. Not a character, a real human actual person.