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Why does it seem like women are more wont to make noise in sexual situations while men don't?
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This is why lesbians have better sex.
You have fingers and a mouth, you don't need to stop fucking all night after you cum.
As a straight, I wish I had fingers and a mouth. At least I can have multiple orgasms. Suck it, penis-owners!
Look, if we could we would, but then you'd never see us again.
Words cannot describe my confusion.
The bering strait**
Trans women with penises can have multiple orgasms.
I didn't realize that and that's fantastic! Thank you!
Men with and without penises also can have multiple orgasms.
As a straight male, I too have fingers and a mouth
I've just realised you all saw the word lesbian and short circuited, deciding everything following that word was supposedly all about lesbians, and not about the dude who says he stops fucking after he cums.
Bruh. Try rereading my comment this way, it might make it easier for you to parse without your fantasy lesbians distracting you in the first sentence.
Lol calm down it was an off hand joke. Not a great joke and it clearly didn't land but it certainly wasn't some grand statement meant to offend
I'm not offended? I'm finding this funny. Maybe you shouldn't be so quick to project your emotions.
Also I seriously only realised when replying to your comment what the others in this thread were on about by mentioning being straight in response to my comment. Which is why I explained it as it was obviously a parsing error.
The problem is more that cumming is the goal for many guys.
I may won't last long when penetrating, but we still have fun for hours before and after it.
And I think that's a point about how to approach sex, not about sexual identity
I'm glad you understand the point i was making.
As a woman that sounds fucking exhausting. I finish as soon as I can and am not interested in going for hours. My boyfriend would want to buy I have sleep or snacks or games to get to. Heck, I'm fine not even finishing and I get annoyed he insists I do. Omg I'm so exhausted just thinking about it ugh.
You sound exhausting.
Do what? Why would you have to stop for that long? Genuinely asking.
Can you rephrase the question? I don't understand what you're trying to ask.
Why would you need to stop fucking after you orgasm?
I hate that my bf insists on going longer after I'm done. I don't like it. I'm done. Hurry up!
It's a mutual thing, some people like going longer, some are one and done.
Ask the man who said he does, that I was replying to.
I was, you just asked me to rephrase the question lol
No, you asked me originally.
Yes, I did, and I asked you specifically why you would need to stop fucking after you bust a load
Ask the man who said he does, that I was replying to.
I'm asking you specifically why you would need to stop. You brought this up, that guy only implied it.
Why are you deflecting this? It's just a simple question, nobody is going to ostracize you for it.
I'm trying to figure out if you struggle with reading comprehension or if you're just a bit thick.
I am not lacking in the department of reading comprehension, but it seems you are in regards to both reading and writing. When you write something like that, it heavily implies that you either do what you said or you ateast understand it.
I am simply asking why one would have to stop after reaching climax once. You, for some odd reason, are totally deflecting the question or somehow oblivious to your own statement. If you don't feel comfortable talking about it, I totally understand.
I. Don't. Do. That. So. Ask. The. Man. Who. Said. He. Does.
Edited for clarity. I'm not sure how much clearer I can make this.
You understand it, I don't, therefore I am asking you as your statement is what made me curious.