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If you have daughters please train them in self defense. Best to train it young and encourage it as a hobby into adulthood. It’s better than weapons and more effective. Breaking an assailant’s arm comes with way less PTSD than shooting someone.
Edit: I am a fan of living a self reliant life. It’s a very wholesome and well rounded way to live. Carl Sagan promoted it and it is a solid way to actually live free rather than under the falsities of the self proclaimed “main stream” portion of society. Self Defense is a major part of that. Self defense also does not mean being a master of it, just enough to get away safely.
Edit2: Yea this post isn’t victim blaming. There are many benefits to self defense including confidence building. You are literally empowering your kids. Idk why people don’t like doing that except to control them. Again, teaching self defense isn’t teaching violence. If you don’t know the difference it would be enlightening to discover it.
I don't disagree but I think it's a lot easier for me to teach my son not to be a rapist. At 7 he understands boundaries. It's not hard.
Yeah... too bad you can't teach other people's sons not to be rapists - they're the ones you've gotta worry about
Better yet we do both. Hell we should also be spreading awareness and providing programs to help support people to prevent and recover from incidents like this. It's a complex social issue so it should be tackled from all directions simultaneously
Completely agreed. I don't think anybody is out here saying "teach people to defend themselves but don't even bother trying to teach people not to assault others"
Let's also not forget that a certain percentage of people are simply fucked up beyond repair, no matter how they are raised.
So teaching women basic self defense is absolutely the way to go.
I want to live in a world, where this piece of shit tries to rape someone and ends up with a broken nose, arm and exploded nutsack.
It's amazing what you can do if you try.
Did you know that modern society has an entire profession based around teaching other people's sons? Like, adults learn for years how to do this, and then we pay those people to teach our sons and everyone else's sons too. Most countries even make it a legal requirement to be taught by someone!
It's amazing.
You're presenting that as a gotcha moment? Just wait until you realize... that schools already teach you not to rape. Almost like a baseline level of functioning in society... requires you to be aware of basic rules like don't rape or murder?
The same schools that fire teachers for talking about sex ed? Yeah, you have no idea.
How old are your kids?
Go suck a Trump, you pedo.
What?
How about instead we train boys that they do not own women, nor do they have a right to demand women obey them.
Teach your children well.
Both. Both is an option because you can't train the monster out of some people.
Exactly. So parents should train their sons to not be rapey manipulative violent assholes.
Wrap it up everyone, we've stopped rapists by...
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being condescending about it on the internet
It's amazing what you can do if you try.
Did you know that modern society has an entire profession based around teaching other people's sons? Like, adults learn for years how to do this, and then we pay those people to teach our sons and everyone else's sons too. Most countries even make it a legal requirement to be taught by someone!
It's amazing.
Yes, the American school system really is.
So is yours
I'm so glad the public school system has completely eliminated rape
You mean because they made it illegal to talk about sex in schools?
Yeah, I'm sure that's not related at all
I thought you said the existence of schools had eliminated rape, which is it?
No, I said teachers exist, so a lack of parenting shouldn't be the issue.
The problem isn't "parents suck", the problem is "we have a way to address this problem, and we are actively stopping it from being effective".
The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue.
I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote.
Okay. But also, if you have a son teach them that women are not objects that owe them sex if they follow some script in their head.
I agree with this, but I also think it would be a good idea to teach them how to defend themselves with weapons as well. There are certain situations where legally it will be less of a problem for you if you just kill the threat. You don't want to end up paying your would-be rapists medical bills over some dumb technicality.
My daughter has been learning defense since she was 8, went through different classes including MMA. She's such a sweet kid and runs away from danger, but she's got enough to fight with if it ever comes to it. Still wish I could follow her around looking mean everywhere she goes. But if a guy ever did this to her, I would deal with him myself.
A good self defense class teaches people to run first and fight only when you're cornered, so she's learning the right lesson.
This is unrealistic victim-blaming.
Teach your sons to control themselves and your daughters to go hard for the balls.
Breaking soneone's arm doesn't help your K/D ratio. Do you want your daughter going to her grave with a 0/1 like a noob?