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Don’t You Know Who I Am?

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[–] average650 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Of course it happens. I never said it doesn't. I said it sounds to me like he's just passionate about something in this case. I even said if he ignores her expertise after he finds out who she is, then he's an ass and ignore him.

let’s keep in mind, this whole time you’re correcting a woman on a topic that you’ve yet to show any experience in, plus weren’t even present for and all you have is her perspective, and you still said it’s wrong.

Dude, it's a conversation with a stranger. Why do you act like I've never had any experience talking with a stranger?

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're doubling down on correcting her and saying her interpretation is worse than yours. And I need to point out again, you weren't there and she was. Yet you still are committed to saying your interpretation is better. Wow. Just wow, buddy.

[–] average650 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So, we aren't ever allowed to suggest that another course of action was better if we weren't there? Really?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

No, you can do so. But have a better fucking reason than making up entirely different scenarios. When the situation actually contains enough info to know they're wrong, then sure. But when there is no reason or evidence to question them, why do it?