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Lemmy Be Wholesome

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Welcome to Lemmy Be Wholesome. This is the polar opposite of LemmeShitpost. Here you can post wholesome memes, palate cleanser and good vibes.

The home to heal your soul. No bleak-posting!

Rules:


1. Be Respectful


Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.

Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.

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2. No Illegal Content


Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.

That means: -No promoting violence/threats against any individuals

-No CSA content or Revenge Porn

-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)

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Posting the same post, no matter the intent is against the rules.

-If you have posted content, please refrain from re-posting said content within this community.

-Do not spam posts with intent to harass, annoy, bully, advertise, scam or harm this community.

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-No Bots, Bots will be banned from the community.

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-Do not post explicit content. Lemmy.World is not the instance for NSFW content.

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-Do not Brigade other Communities

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-No content that harasses members within or outside of the community.

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-Content shouldn't be NSFW

-Refrain from posting triggering content, if the content might be triggering try putting it behind NSFW tags.


7. Content should be Wholesome, we accept cute cats, kittens, puppies, dogs and anything, everything that restores your faith in humanity!


Content that isn't wholesome will be removed.

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8. Reposting of Reddit content is permitted, try to credit the OC.


-Please consider crediting the OC when reposting content. A name of the user or a link to the original post is sufficient.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm reading all these comments in the "Lemmy Be Wholesome" community and just yikes.

I can see it from both perspectives.

Sometimes, I can't handle a random person like a coworker emotional-dump on me. I'll give shallow level sympathy. We don't have a relationship where we both trust each other to give advice or support in a successful way. So yeah, you're going to get a "Bro that's rough man."

If I really like the person, I'm there for them, above and beyond. The tradeoff has to be mutual. They got my back, and I have theirs. Its my wife. It's my therapist. It's my best buddy from high school. It's my team from work. It's the coffee shop people I see every other day.

Lots of work and trust built before I can open up.

That's what I'm wondering here. You people okay? You people out there building real connections?

[โ€“] secretlyaddictedtolinux 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

I think this sounds nice, but often even with close people this doesn't work well and a depressed person risks damaging the relationship. A spouse or best friend will sometimes deal with it for a year. They often won't deal with it for yearS. I have a hard time envisioning you've been extraordinarily depressed before, even if you've been technically depressed and took Proaz for a month, and I doubt anything like that has even happened.