this post was submitted on 27 Jan 2025
19 points (88.0% liked)

AskUSA

327 readers
62 users here now

About

Community for asking and answering any question related to the life, the people or anything related to the USA. Non-US people are welcome to provide their perspective! Please keep in mind:

  1. [email protected] - politics in our daily lives is inescapable, but please post overtly political things there rather than here
  2. [email protected] - similarly things with the goal of overt agitation have their place, which is there rather than here

Rules

  1. Be nice or gtfo
  2. Discussions of overt political or agitation nature belong elsewhere
  3. Follow the rules of discuss.online

Sister communities

  1. [email protected]
  2. [email protected]
  3. [email protected]
  4. [email protected]
  5. [email protected]

Related communities

  1. [email protected]
  2. [email protected]
  3. [email protected]
  4. [email protected]
  5. [email protected]

founded 1 month ago
MODERATORS
 

Rather than put my answers, I will leave space for you to jump in directly with yours:-).

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Mostly based on the shitty exes of the straight women I know:

Votes R. This means they do not respect women full stop.

Does not reciprocate emotional labor.

Swears liking femboys is straight.

Gets upset when told no.

Lack of confidence. This usually comes with all sorts of manipulative behavior to get what they want because they won't say it outright. Had a friend seek out a dominant person who turned out to really be a submissive but couldn't get women that way, so he would try and get them emotionally attached and manipulate them into dominating him without negotiating for those things.

The need to be right.

Being offended by the man vs bear thing.

Jokes about sexual assault.

Any hints of abuse. Controlling behavior. Love bombing. Etc. It's only going to get worse.

Cop.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Swears liking femboys is straight.

...this is a thing? Man, learn something new and facepalm-worthy every day, seriously.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Swears liking femboys is straight.

This one seems oddly specific and unlike the others. Is it because of being closeted LGBTQ (because it's not exactly "straight"), combined with homophobia?

Because we could debate all day on how gay it is, and none of that is really a relationship red flag without homophobia.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

It's the homophobia.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago