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It's just the one I use and like. I started shopping there and just sticked with it. It has fast transports and very easy returns, so just felt like I was happy.
Which ones do you recommend?
From the perspective of a Finnish woman:
Cubus - only in Finland, Sweden, Norway.
Ellos - clearly their cuts aren't for me but there are some gems appearance- and material-wise for someone, only in Sweden, Norway, Finland, Denmark.
Cellbes - plus sizes for women and men, open menu and scroll to bottom for other countries
Women only:
Toiveshop - mostly women, some unisex.
Nosh - women only, 13€ EU shipping and another 13€ returns, I don't think they even have a site in other languages.
Ulla Popken - plus size women, scroll down for EU web stores.
I also have to link Damadesign, first because I love their designs and materials, and second because they will do adjustments to make a bespoke garment for an additional 15-60€. So you could have a timeless, simple, made to measure LBD for 220€. Not sure if they do foreign orders. I'd love to know more these kinds of shops!
More tips would be very welcome!