kofe

joined 2 years ago
[–] kofe 1 points 20 hours ago

The only reference I have to go on off the top of my head there is Django Unchained where a difference was noted for those working in the house vs fields. I imagine it was used as emotional manipulation to bribe them with better living conditions in some cases, though

[–] kofe 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Jokes aside, there have been cultures where women went into labor and would deliver by themselves away from the tribe. It's been a while since I read about it, but iirc if she returned without the newborn is was either unacknowledged or at minimum just accepted as her decision. Imagine having a still birth or a child with extreme physical deficiencies prior to modern medicine. I do remember thinking when I read it that it surely resulted in women not returning, too, because childbirth can be risky even with a team of professionals.

Also wet nurses have been a thing, and the practices with that range from understandable to horrific - think wives of slave owners not wanting to breast feed, so they force a slave that's given birth recently take on the duty, usually as a priority over their own child. Course, there's always been women who couldn't produce milk, so it has been done altruistically, too

[–] kofe 27 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Wait what the bloody fuck? I haven't heard anything about this. Sounds right up their alley, but what evidence is it based on?

[–] kofe 5 points 1 week ago (6 children)

The overturn of roe v wade is affecting millions of women alone. But thanks for showing you don't give a shit about us.

[–] kofe 1 points 1 week ago

10 bad, 15 average, 20 good service. I've always gone above 20, having worked plenty of years relying on it for income myself

[–] kofe 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Depends on whom you're asking, but lots of christians consider it a sin outside of marriage. Super healthy message to give young kids /s

[–] kofe 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Well, we can prove the universe exists, but not that it's some unified, all-powerful thing controlling us all afaik.

It's why I stick with agnostic atheism. I'm not claiming to know either way on all forms of deism or theism or whatever. There's enough contradictions and falsifiable claims in all organized religions I've been made aware of so far, so I am gnosticly atheist for those specific gods.

[–] kofe 7 points 2 weeks ago

Even according to Dawkins definition of sex, there are only two, which is scientifically inaccurate. He's a fucking esteemed biologist and should know the difference between binary and bimodal.

[–] kofe 1 points 2 weeks ago

On some models yeah. I've had cars that didn't

[–] kofe 2 points 2 weeks ago

I'm pretty sure I have some deficiencies, but I'm lucky I got to learn pretty young on a farm. I'm torn between wanting to advocate kids have access to like go kart tracks at school vs funding more public transit and walkable communities, as someone else said. Both would be dope tho

[–] kofe 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Welcome to life, where occasionally you deal with things you don't want to. I do hope you never experience a similar situation, but if you do, I hope it is handled with compassion.

 

I was rushing to get these done between school and work, but I kept each of the 5 questions under 3 minutes if y'all are curious how I interpreted them! I heard lines might be longer than usual today, so make sure you've got water and some snacks. Hope to see you at the polls!

 

Hey y'all - I'm starting a video series breaking down our statewide ballot questions since I looked last week and had no idea about some of them. I'd really appreciate any support you can give, whether it's watching, commenting, or following my channel!

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fuck the manosphere (self.casualconversation)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by kofe to c/casualconversation
 

I just want to vent a bit - I started seeing someone a few weeks ago. Old fling that I ran into through some friends that got rekindled, and I was excited that it seemed like more than just casual hookups this time. But there were some yellow flags I ignored that turned out to be red flags, and now I'm feeling frustrated and hurt.

Dude for real dropped the line that men are more "capable" and "logical" on me. That gender studies are "indoctrination." I told him we should probably stop seeing each other if that's really what he thinks. It wouldn't be logical for me to keep seeing someone that thinks lesser of me, now, would it?

I'm grateful to have some guy friends that I turned to after I left, cuz I wanted to go into "fuck all men" mode, but I know it's not true or helpful. Just like there are women out there that have internalized misogyny, there's feminist men, enbies, etc. We're all just people and we're not monoliths beholden to differences in biology. This is just sexist, manosphere bullshit in particular

Anyway. I'm still feeling angry and wanted to put it out there for some support and solidarity. Anyone have a recent win they'd like to share or something?

ETA: Thank you so much for the conversation y'all! I've been trying to keep up but I gotta get some sleep. I'll check in later but hope everyone has a good day. Keep up the empowerment! 💜

 

I know it's not the most engaging or thought provoking question, but I'm having a bad day and would really like to find a space to vent

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by kofe to c/videoessays
 

I was noot prepared for this intensity

 

Hey y'all, want to give a heads up that I used redact a few days ago to delete all my comments and found the entire history restored today. I've seen a few useful tips that if you're petty enough, start editing and deleting your comments manually so it doesn't get noticed as quickly. I started by viewing my top comments and edited them to say "As a language AI model, I'm beginning to edit all my comments in protest of reddit"

I'm just going to do a little at a time and will check back in after about 12 hours or so to make sure it's not restored then keep going

Obligatory fuck spez

ETA: Thank you @deweydecibel for the explanation! If y'all are using redact, try making sure you're using the one with a 5 second delay

Edit 2: @EnigmaNL also noted the script didn't work for comments in subs that were locked down. I just finished going through mine and can confirm there weren't too many left, so I think that's what the issue was!

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familyyy (self.h3h3productions)
submitted 2 years ago by kofe to c/h3h3productions
 

I was thinking of making a community here for h3 and am glad to see ones been made! It was one of the only subreddits I'd checked this last week and now I feel so much more comfortable sticking to lemmy. Just want to say hi for now with ✌️& ❤️ Shout out to all the hoes for Hila, Olivia, Lena, and Sam!

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