And I interpreted the comic about a situation/action that hurt person A without the intention of person B. Like genuinely nothing that hurts most people and person B couldn't have known that their action was offensive/hurtful to person A. How would you like to be apologized to in that situation? "I'm sorry I hurt you" would probably be the answer for most people. But for me "I'm sorry" goes hand in hand with changing your actions in the future. You can't change something you don't know. You can say that you're sorry, but you can't guarantee that you won't hurt the person with another action again. Therefore the only thing you can apologize for is the action itself and as I said I interpeted that the action was harmless/not offensive for most people. Therefore apologizing for doing the action seems unfair to me. It wasn't your intention to hurt the other person and you'll refrain from doing the action again in the vicinity of person A.
If I interpret the comic your way I don't see how being pushed/forced to say "I'm sorry" would mean anything. If the person has bigoted views, therefore says something bigoted and you rightfully tell them that hurt you but they don't see what they did wrong, you demanding to be apologized to won't change their view. I'd even say that saying "I'm sorry" is used as an manipulation tactic since it's often used as a get-out-of-jail-free card. If you don't change your actions "I'm sorry" doesn't mean anything. And if you have to be forced to say I'm sorry (and therefore don't seem to see something wrong in your actions) it's the same as saying nothing at all.
Wie man sieht, leider noch recht wenig los in den meisten communities. Auf den großen geht schon einiges weiter, die kleinen werden wohl erst mit der Zeit mehr traffic bekommen. Ist ja auch alles noch vergleichsweise recht jung. Ist aber spannend dem ganzen beim Wachsen zuzusehen.
Reddit Ersatz ist es noch keines, aber zumindest ein Trostpflaster.
Hab mit reddit-blackout gewechselt, bin jetzt also schon ein paar Tage hier. Man findet sich schon schnell zu recht. Hat sich in den letzten Tagen auch schon einiges verändert bzw. ist jeden Tag mehr los.
Für das beste Erlebnis kann ich jetzt keine genauen Vorschläge bieten. Ich hab Jerbora als App ausprobiert, das crasht jetzt aber seit dem neuesten Update. Benutze jetzt wefwef und bin recht happy.
Ich versuche mehr zu interagieren und kein reiner Lurker mehr zu sein.
Generell find ichs sehr interessant wie sich das ganze hier in nur zwei Wochen entwickelt hat.