TotallynotJessica

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[–] TotallynotJessica 7 points 2 days ago

How can a person be so pathetic and entitled?

If you were reasonable, you'd be mad about all the shitty business practices in the game industry, but instead you're probably mad about a single outfit having aesthetic changes in a mid game with hotter outfits. Literally dumber than dirt.

[–] TotallynotJessica 50 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] TotallynotJessica 6 points 2 days ago (3 children)

This is a bit beyond the scope of a post about eating out God. The only religion we talk about here is yuri

[–] TotallynotJessica 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It won't bring comfort or pain. It won't bring anything except nothing. Getting there will probably be painful and scary; that's how it is for most people when they die. Your present will no longer exist because you were hoping for a future that one can never experience.

From then on, you'll only exist in the past of countless others who wish you could've stayed longer. They might wish for things you never would've willingly delivered, or miss you for things about you that weren't true. They will miss you for a future unrealized, looking ever forward like you once did. However, the greatest sadness will be the moments when they wished you were there.

..............

Needless to say, not having a girlfriend is a bad reason to not want to live. I doubt it's even your real reason. The most common reason for hating existence is hating yourself. If that's the case, you won't get better until you love you.

I've met several people who couldn't improve, no matter what they tried. I was stuck in that place for most of my life; cursing that I was born; unable to live for myself. This was all because I was the only person I truly hated. Eventually, I found that my inability to be happy was because I never loved myself. Loving myself wasn't sufficient for happiness, but it was necessary.

It was often the thing other people in the same spot needed as well. They had often obtained most of what they needed already, but that one piece was still missing. Don't need a gf to love you if you have a self that loves you 😁

[–] TotallynotJessica 23 points 2 days ago

You were cared for once, you can be cared for again. I wouldn't mind playing with your hair as you rest your head in my lap :3

Self hatred doesn't help you in any way. It's not more rational by simply being mean. You are not inherently bad, even if you do bad things. You can always improve, but you never will unless you let that hatred go. It's never going to be easy or pleasant all the time, but it won't be only misery either.

[–] TotallynotJessica 3 points 2 days ago

For what? Being a femcel?

[–] TotallynotJessica 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Even monoliths are carved by the elements into the dust from whence they came.

[–] TotallynotJessica 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I thought that because I didn't have a clue that I wanted to be a girl, I couldn't be trans. Turns out I had more signs than a protest buried in my past.

Edit: the signs were surprisingly consistent

[–] TotallynotJessica 6 points 3 days ago

That's unfair! The rest of a girl's body is also very erotic πŸ˜‹

[–] TotallynotJessica 2 points 3 days ago

I don't think an assassination is likely, but there are other ways to terrorize the rich

[–] TotallynotJessica 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I hope this trends instead of wall street bets. The rich need to be genuinely afraid. They've taken so many of our lives, so we must take theirs. Wealth cannot protect them from the end of civilization.

[–] TotallynotJessica 8 points 3 days ago

Freudian psychology is only relevant as a therapeutic technique, not as a way of understanding. The evidence does demonstrate its effectiveness for certain people with certain diagnoses, but like other older methods, the doctor can often project their expectations into the patient.

The sad truth is that psychology is in its infancy, with our understandings getting rewritten at a rapid rate. It's still the best tool we have, but it's important to realize just how little we know.

I'm early gen z, but when I was a kid, I couldn't even have gotten diagnosed with both autism and ADHD. We now know that most people with autism have ADHD, yet it wasn't even possible to get dual diagnosed until 2011.

This isn't because science was done incorrectly, but because it was done correctly. Any leftist ideas built on psychological frameworks will have the same challenge as the books you mentioned. Psychology just moves fast.

 
 

The Results of My Author/Classmate Discovering My Yuri Obsession

 

but where would you put me? 😢

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Becoming Her Lover For the Sake of Love

 
 
 
 

There’s No Freaking Way I’ll be Your Lover! Unless...

Her hunch was correct too:

NSFW spoiler

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