Jerboa doesn't support DMs yet, it's very new. Also, you should know that Lemmy's DMs are not at all secure, and federated just like public posts, meaning admins can read them if they choose to. I'd suggest you use something like Matrix (sometimes known as Element) to DM people. :)
this post was submitted on 24 Jun 2023
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as an abstract thought... I have not seen a technical reason prohibiting federated e2e encrypted messages at some point in the future. so, when development can shift immediate focus from the "must-haves" and toward the "nice-to-haves", we may well get secure, private, on-network DMs.
I think the normal issue prohibiting e2e encrypted messages being actually good is that end to end encryption requires keys, and keys require verification, and verification requires a trusted outside channel.
As it stands I would want a secure line to some random user I don't know anything about, so I need a key. Where do I get a user's key? I ask the same untrusted admin of their lemmy instance for it and they give it to me. How do I validate this key is actually this user's? I don't, I just trust the key the admin gave me. Then I encrypt my message and send it over.
So it protects against an honest instance being attacked later. Or against a shortsighted admin who might feel a little like peeking but hadn't thought about being dishonest yet.
But in exchange for a smidge of security, what you gain is that new clients can't read any DM you received before you started using it, or a buggy client who hasn't synced the keys lately sending a message that only 2 of your clients can read but not the one you're using right now. Or a phone falling into a toilet and effectively taking all your DMs with it because either there was no UI to back up your keys, or there was one but you didn't use it because no one ever uses it, or there is a UI to backup the keys but no UI to import them on the next client, etc.
indeed, difficult problems abound - but signal or briar style tradeoffs may be acceptable to those looking to make use of encrypted DM type comms.
this comment by @yote_[email protected] in the thread points to at least one early consideration on the issue.
anyone who cares (as you do) knows that e2ee is hard as hell to implement properly, especially when its user facing. lots of traps at every step, but there are possible paths if we define what we want to achieve and make that scope crystal clear to the user. improper / mistaken tool use is often much worse than no tool at all. federation makes tool selection all the more important.
as for me, fediverse e2ee would be an initial channel to establish connections that may lead to other, more suitable channels. confirmed identity of internet strangers (beyond initial key exchange) in this particular venue is less important to me than the ability to pass a few ephemeral, secure messages. in my world, who I send my grandmother's super secret meat sauce recipe to is slightly less important than putting clear text on the wire or into instance storage for anyone to potentially see... forever. everyone has their own requirements and its unlikely that fedi e2ee will satisfy them all.
oo I got pinged when you wrote my name (I think?). Good to know that's how that works. I agree that as it stands we're nowhere close to proper encryption on DMs - we shouldn't even try to be implementing half-measures as a stand-in. I would guess that the best option would be to put a warning above DMs saying "this isn't encrypted, the instance owner can read what you write, if you want encrypted conversation use e.g. Matrix or Signal". I know that there's a slot for a Matrix username on my Lemmy profile, so there might even be some potential for integration there.
On the topic of "everyone has their own requirements", Soatok actually says the following in their article:
The answer is simple: I do not trust Megolm, the protocol designed for Matrix.
Megolm has benefited from amateur review for four years. Non-cryptographers will confuse this observation with the proposition that Matrix has benefited from peer review for four years. Those are two different propositions.
In fact, the first time someone with cryptography expertise bothered to look at Matrix for more than a glance, they found critical vulnerabilities in its design. These are the kinds of vulnerabilities that are not easily mitigated, and should be kept in mind when designing a new protocol.
Most (all?) of these vulnerabilities have since been fixed, but it goes to show that even a titan like Matrix still cannot be trusted to handle perfect encryption.
It looks like Soatok's proposal has been stalled on their github (probably because they got busy with something else in the meantime).
Not sure if this will ping correctly since their handle is from mastodon but @[email protected] if you care to share any thoughts on this topic (E2EE DMs w/ ActivityPub) since your blog post was referenced. I'm not even close to being good at cryptography so forgive anything stupid I said 
Edit: Actually it looks like the language I proposed is already there:
completely agreed wrt your reply. encryption is serious business and I am pretty sure that physicists will eventually discover a fundamental law of the universe already known to mathematicians - "never roll your own".
having said that, we do have examples of state of the art trustless key distribution and encryption frameworks that are believe to be robust. adapting a suitable fedi e2ee framework is likely quite some time away, but I think it is something that should be on the radar and gently agitated for - at least to keep the underlying activitypub protocol agnostic to it during continued buildout.
anyone reading this thread and interested in possible federated e2ee should take a look at the excellent article that you highlighted. it starts a thought process and gives an entry point for contribution and collaboration. again, thanks for sharing, it was a great read.
I know that soatok made a proposal for this a while ago, but I don't know if it went anywhere.
thanks for this link! i had not seen it before.
In most cases I'd just want to DM somebody to ask about something on Lemmy (i.e. message a mod) so nothing that I'd be too worried about privacy with, but yeah I kinda assumed they're not super secure.
Then again I doubt Reddit etc were either
You can click on a user name to send a private message, but it doesn't save the sent private message anywhere. You get replies to your inbox, but no copy of the sent message can be viewed.
Lemmy lacks the ability to deal with private messages in a dedicated space which is something that's lacking I think. It lumps private messages in with community messages, but I think that's confusing. I suppose I could live with it, but the failure to show sent private messages anywhere is a problem for me.
Overwhelmingly on this page, the sentiment is that people do not want karma. I literally only have four bullets of pros while the cons fill up an entire page. Here are some changes the people have mentioned to have instead of karma. (Note that these are truncated and may not reflect their exact suggestion) Changes: Slashdot’s system: karma can only get +5 or -1 (@solstice) Awards! Still worth nothing, but sometimes a post deserves more than an upvote, hence stickers (@wwaxwork) Buy/Give awards as a way to support this (@penguinsAreRapists) Give users notifications if they reach upvote thresholds for upvotes or downvotes. Still gives dopamine (@[email protected]) Voting system nice, but no need for sitewide (@Duchess) Easily seen age and activity metrics. Helps to tell apart old account that regularly posts from young, spammy account (@Cybermass) A percentage/history graph/something that uses multiple metrics to produce the rating. Needs discussion to flesh out (@EtherWhack) Lemmy does not need to be an exact copy of Reddit (Dick Justice) No carry over, but hidden metric might be good (@WetBeardHairs) Flairs that the community can award (@Waitwuhtt) Negative scores on posts should be hidden except to moderators. Autoreport posts that go below 0. (@dreadedsemi) Get rid of visible up and downvotes (@joroo) Mastodon allows each instance to enable/disable these numbers but defaults to hidden (@dustyData) Lemmy can do this (Rozaŭtuno)
...I think that's about all that I can glean from this thread before my head explodes. I've only read about half of all the posts. If you want the full doc which includes a compilation of pros, meh, cons, good talking points, and the changes, ask me. Edit: Good luck reading these since I don't know how to create new lines on lemmy x_x
My big thought is this: one bot-infested instance could get anyone up to infinite "karma". So, direct "karma" doesn't work.
Now, you could do some simple stats, and be like "how many lemming's worth of karma do you have, taking an instance's active population divided by your share of 'karma'".
IDK - I like stupid internet points. I never cared how much other people had of them, but it's fun to watch mine go up. It's gamification in the most pure state - quantifying something to make it more pleasurable
I think it's best they remain pointless, and someone's 'karma' only appear when you click on their profile... but it'd be a shame if there was no way to earn them. Even if you received a total per-server, it's just fun
In the desktop web site, if I click on your user id, there's a "Send Message" button on the top right area of your profile page.
I just tried sending you something with it.
No idea about clients tho.
Hello. Could you please paraphrase your title as a question please? It's breaking rule #1. :)
Done!
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