this post was submitted on 20 Aug 2023
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A place for those that got both Autism and ADHD, those confirmed as one and are suspecting they got the other as well, and also everyone who is neither and just genuinely curious.

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Also maximizes frustration.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

"We're going to need you to spend more time in the office."

[–] gitstash 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Also known as “working from home with kids”.

[–] LazaroFilm 2 points 1 year ago

I get stretched of 1h max each time. That just enough time for me to get all set and ready and I haletas have to stop.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Ouch. That brought me some memories.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Pff, I can do that to my self! ... :(

[–] BackOnMyBS 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I seriously broke up with a girl because of this one thing. She was great everywhere else. I found her gorgeous. She was smart. She loved me. She wanted to be around me all the time...but she would not stop interrupting me when I was working. It was sooooo distracting. We had multiple conversations about it over 1-2 months. I finally had to decide that I either drop out of grad school or I break up with her. I might have chosen wrong tho, cause I'm not getting any action lately. At least I can tell the girls that I am a doctor while they walk away from me.

[–] Agamemnon 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You did the right thing. 100% 'Not respecting my focus time' would be a dealbreaker for me, too.

[–] BackOnMyBS 2 points 1 year ago

thank you for the validation! you guys are my people ❤️

[–] Sine_Fine_Belli 3 points 1 year ago

Relatable fr

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I found that after improving my physical health, this has gotten much better.

[–] coco 1 points 1 year ago

Lapsus ?? It happen to me myself all alone like going to my garage and then im asked medelf.

Why the fuck i am in there garage for !!!!!

Toiok me a fee second to realise why 😵‍💫