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A place for those that got both Autism and ADHD, those confirmed as one and are suspecting they got the other as well, and also everyone who is neither and just genuinely curious.

Since the combo comes with its own set of challenges, this shall be a place to ask for advice, vent, infodump about special interests and/or just vibe and meme.

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[โ€“] Kyrgizion 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I feel this deep in my bones. Troubleshooting complex issues for multiple days, and when the problem is finally resolved...

Nothing.

Just more work, just as boring and useless, probably even more so.

I don't look forward to two or three more decades of this.

[โ€“] Agamemnon 5 points 2 years ago

Troubleshooting a complex issue is one the few things that actually do trigger the dopamine for me. But it has to be a unique problem - not one that can be summarised as "404 - Customer brain not found"

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Hey look it's me.

I always thought it was just because of how I was raised: perfection is adequacy and anything less is a moral failure.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's just a symptom of depression, isn't it?

[โ€“] Agamemnon 9 points 2 years ago

Yes, you're wrong. It's also a symptom of depression, but not exclusively.

Also a very common mistake that leads to unnecessary harm when doctors rather cycle through all the available depression meds before even considering that they might have been wrong from the start.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Never occurred to me that that was a thing of its own, just figure life long depression is doing its part!

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It is the depression. Many people don't realize they're depressed.

[โ€“] doppelgangmember 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

That's over-simplifying for our brains.

Probably has to do with a more root cause in society like this: https://phys.org/news/2023-08-people-pointless-meaningless-jobs.html

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Don't disagree that capitalism is heavily involved in many mental health illnesses, but that specifically talks about work, and my depression has nothing to do with that (started long before working age and continues despite my inability to be part of a workforce) so it isn't entirely relevant (not saying it's a bad article or point, it just doesn't fit in this instance).

[โ€“] doppelgangmember 2 points 2 years ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Oh, ok. I wanna say cool? but it's not really lol

[โ€“] fugepe 0 points 2 years ago

Think that's a mental illness my zoomer friends