Hey, my marriage is not even disfunctional and I still I've been dry for years! The only thing that sucks is life
this post was submitted on 30 Jul 2023
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I stayed in a marriage like that for far longer than I care to admit. Best of luck. Feel free to DM if you want to commiserate.
Have you tried marriage counseling? Also not a bad idea to talk to ag therapist yourself. I went to a sex therapist and it helped my marriage a lot.
How does a sex therapist help? I’ve always wondered.
I find having sex can actually help a relationship and if a sex therapist can bump how often you have sex that can help a lot. Btw I'm not suggesting you need to have sex like every day or else your marriage is doomed but like once a week or at least once a month can help.
sex / intimacy is essential to a healthy marriage, its basically physical communication and just the same as verbal communication, without the relationship is doomed in the long run
Isn’t it different for each couple? As long as there isn’t a huge libido mismatch and ongoing communication?
you can make it work sure but if you last as a couple is just a bit less likely...someone is not going to be satisfied and frustration eats at the relationship as time passes.
now im not somekind of expert, just speaking from my own experiences and observations 🤷♂️
Aw sad frog 😕
Not worried about it. I get more joy out of spending time with my wife and son
How long?
8 months but I'm getting a divorce, which is nice