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OMG! I follow so many trans groups on here, fb, yt, reddit wherever and there are so many of you that if I didn't see where it was posted I'd assume you were just a rediculously attractive cis woman and I'm so jealous!

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 month ago

Well, I mean, you're part of us now. You're part of the ridiculously attractive girls club :3

I totally get you tho. I was at a local pride parade 2 months ago and I was literally completely overwhelmed by the amount of people that gave me a "OMG I NEEEED TO GO TO THEM AND HUG THEM" feeling (even if I didn't do it because shyyy). I was literally melting

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Same! I know there must be some kind of selection bias, but it's encouraging.

Given that I currently look like a recently-shaved walrus in a dress, if I'm not supermodel-grade this time next year, who do I speak to about a refund?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Given that I currently look like a recently-shaved walrus in a dress

Is that supposed to be an insult?

[–] TotallynotJessica 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Well... It's true! 🤣😭

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Happiness and confidence is pretty.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Conventionally attractive people are more likely to post selfies

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I think it's more that people who think they are pretty are more likely to post selfies.

[–] Hildegarde 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Because I don't take pictures of myself. 🙃

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Ah! My method as well.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

It's a YMMV thing. The fat, "ugly" ones of us don't post or do and don't get upvoted so we're not seen. If you don't start off as a twink don't expect to look like them. The rest of us look like heavyset women with PCOS.