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Hi everyone. Need your advise please. Can I wear this loafer with chino shorts?

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[–] robocall 14 points 10 months ago
[–] bushvin 11 points 10 months ago
[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

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God I love these top 4 responses. I'd say yes myself but you can probably trust yourself on this since your own appearance and wider aesthetic will influence this more than if these two items alone work together.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Can you repeat the question?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No socks and you're golden

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

You’re not the boss of me now.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yes, it's a classic combination. Don't wear socks with that.

I mostly think of it as something they wear in southern Europe by the Mediterranean or on hot summer days elsewhere.

However, in my opinion it looks inappropriately when worn in winter in cold places.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Thank you so much. You won't believe how hard it is to look for advice online and then finding one just to realize at the end of the article that the whole article was just an elaborate ad to make you buy stuff.

[–] ohwhatfollyisman 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

i never understood why we've permitted a purely social construct such as fashion to determine our life choices.

wear what you want, man. be proud and confident. and be happy. don't let the world tell you what works for you.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Well I am wearing what I want. But I still value the advice of other people. Because without input from you guys I may never discover things that are unknown to me but can make a huge difference if taught to me by other people like you guys here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Comfort way before fashion, unless doing so would contravene social norms in a place or at a time where doing so would be disadvantageous for you.

[–] ohwhatfollyisman -1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

these pesky social norms are the thing with which i have a problem.

fuck social norms. who even came up with these norms anyway?

[–] Jilanico 1 points 10 months ago

Society. I think it's an inevitable outcome of human interaction. Probably serves some purpose. I'm with you on the "wear what you want" sentiment, but be aware that how others perceive you will, consciously or unconsciously, impact how they interact with you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

@ohwhatfollyisman @Black_Gulaman

This isn't a fashion question and it's not a life choice.

It's a style question and it's a style choice.

some social constructs are enjoyable. Some people enjoy developing their taste in aesthetic fields. it's okay.

that's why this community exists. If you don't like it, I recommend you unsubscribe.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

If you'd like an alternative, boat shoes would also work while being slightly dressed down compared to your loafers

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I guess my shoe would be more formal. Yes I'd like to look into boat shoes for a more casual style. Thank you!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Much appreciated! Guessing brown would be the most versatile, but I'm liking the white, it's so gorgeous.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Rather than no socks, get a pair of no-show socks. Especially if you'll be wearing them on multiple occasions where your feet will sweat, otherwise you'll probably get blisters and eventually your shoes will stink very badly.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Much appreciated!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

It's a good, classic look, you can absolutely rock it, just don't wear socks