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"Men are bad at picking up on women's hints." What are your actual thoughts on this sentiment?
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I hate the idea of hints. Because A. You then have to make the person your interested in make their own way towards you, and B. Then they have to notice it and then take a risk. I think it's FAR better, to give your crush an opening, serve them a line on a silver platter.
For example:
My wife was interested in me and she opened with:
"Am I too close?" To which I could've replied "nah you're good" or "yes, a bit" without any fuss. but, since I was also interested, I replied.
"Oh nonsense, if anything you're not close enough" which, can easily be dismissed as me being silly, but nope, she's interested. So she responds
'OH really? So how close can I get?"
Like, set up a romantic line. If there's a romantic line to be had. If they're interested, they'll take it.
That's the same thing
This literally described picking up a hint
Yep lol, I thought I was going crazy reading it.