this post was submitted on 01 Mar 2024
625 points (97.9% liked)

News

23317 readers
3615 users here now

Welcome to the News community!

Rules:

1. Be civil


Attack the argument, not the person. No racism/sexism/bigotry. Good faith argumentation only. This includes accusing another user of being a bot or paid actor. Trolling is uncivil and is grounds for removal and/or a community ban. Do not respond to rule-breaking content; report it and move on.


2. All posts should contain a source (url) that is as reliable and unbiased as possible and must only contain one link.


Obvious right or left wing sources will be removed at the mods discretion. We have an actively updated blocklist, which you can see here: https://lemmy.world/post/2246130 if you feel like any website is missing, contact the mods. Supporting links can be added in comments or posted seperately but not to the post body.


3. No bots, spam or self-promotion.


Only approved bots, which follow the guidelines for bots set by the instance, are allowed.


4. Post titles should be the same as the article used as source.


Posts which titles don’t match the source won’t be removed, but the autoMod will notify you, and if your title misrepresents the original article, the post will be deleted. If the site changed their headline, the bot might still contact you, just ignore it, we won’t delete your post.


5. Only recent news is allowed.


Posts must be news from the most recent 30 days.


6. All posts must be news articles.


No opinion pieces, Listicles, editorials or celebrity gossip is allowed. All posts will be judged on a case-by-case basis.


7. No duplicate posts.


If a source you used was already posted by someone else, the autoMod will leave a message. Please remove your post if the autoMod is correct. If the post that matches your post is very old, we refer you to rule 5.


8. Misinformation is prohibited.


Misinformation / propaganda is strictly prohibited. Any comment or post containing or linking to misinformation will be removed. If you feel that your post has been removed in error, credible sources must be provided.


9. No link shorteners.


The auto mod will contact you if a link shortener is detected, please delete your post if they are right.


10. Don't copy entire article in your post body


For copyright reasons, you are not allowed to copy an entire article into your post body. This is an instance wide rule, that is strictly enforced in this community.

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] FlyingSquid 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I am so looking forward to a Lemmy user who is black and a woman to tell you that Oprah sucks. Whoever you are, please do us that favor. And if there aren't any black women on Lemmy... well, there should be anyway.

[–] laughterlaughter 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Which is fine. I probably gave it more emphasis on the side point that the main point. But OP did admit that his wife pointed out that his comments have a misogyny and racist tone, and OP said that maybe that's true. That's it.

"Oprah sucks because she's like Joe Rogan"

Ok.

"And if someone thinks it's racist and sexist, it maaaaaay be true."

Not ok.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Two things.

wife pointed out that his comments have a misogyny and racist tone

First you're putting words in my mouth. She never said anything about my tone making her believe that, but that my dislike might be misogynistic and/or racist. I believe this is because I wasn't explaining my position well, so without a good reason, it opened the door for that possibility.

Second,

“And if someone thinks it’s racist and sexist, it maaaaaay be true.”

Not ok.

It's a good thing that I'm open to the possibility that I'm biased. This is not something to shit on. I don't get why this is such a bad thing. Bring open to being wrong is how you grow.

[–] laughterlaughter 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Understood, and you clarified in another comment.

Your original comment was not clear enough, at least not to me, but now that I have the full context, I see that you're not some racist/sexist asshole. But of course, it was wrong of me to accuse you of that in the first place without asking you to clarify. I'll do that from now on.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

My man. Good on you. We can all learn from this admission.