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[–] [email protected] 74 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Peer pressure. Kids at school get the new greatest phone and tell their parents. Parents feel compelled to get it for their kids.

[–] IndiBrony 55 points 9 months ago (4 children)

That's still on the parents. My little lad is 15 and never had his own phone until his tweens. Amusingly, he was older than me when I got my first phone back in the 90s.

He never got bullied for not having a phone.

[–] ChexMax 37 points 9 months ago (1 children)

He may not have been bullied, but he may have missed out on bonding and closeness that his peers enjoyed. There was a study that showed life is way better for kids if they don't have a phone, but only if their peers also don't have phones

[–] [email protected] 16 points 9 months ago

This fact alone makes me conflicted about this. I don't want my kids to walk around having phones from an early age, but I know first hand that being excluded as a kid is not a enjoyable experience. And kids are vicious creatures to each other too.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

All I never had was a Gameboy I didn't get an actual phone until I was in high school.

It had polyphonic ringtones and an IR blaster, it was the business.

[–] yamanii 3 points 9 months ago

Maybe he just didn't tell you.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago

lol people calling 15-year-olds "little lads" makes me feel like a baby

(i'm 13 :/)

[–] PutangInaMo 7 points 9 months ago

Not just pressure to get a fancy phone but that most of the socializing happens on social media now. Even if they sit in the same class, it's a snapchat message.

If they don't have access to it, they're social outcasts by default.

It's fucking crazy..

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I think if the kids want to bully, they'd just find a lonely and defenseless target and invent an excuse. If you are a potential target, having an expensive phone wouldn't save you anyway.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

You'd be surprised! I was bullied throughout school for my shoes (fake Elllese). But one day I came in wearing a Fila jumper for non-school uniform day and everyone was my best fucking friend. Kids are evil.