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How do you meet new people? (self.askmen)

submitted 10 months ago by Iceblade02 to c/askmen

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In our current day and age, it's rather hard to meet new people and make new friends, particularly for those of us who do not participate in mainstream social media. So, how and where do you meet new people? Feel free to add some context around that.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Clubs and volunteering. Even at a homeless shelter or similar.

Volunteering is especially powerful because you are implicitly "supposed" to be there. Your presence is already explained and accepted, due to the service mission of the volunteer organization.

Therefore you have already achieved the first step of building friendships: shared experience, and shared time spent. Now that those are established you can step out beyond that to get drinks or pursue a then discovered shared hobby, like cycling or hiking or gaming whatever.