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[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I think your more or less correct, but I wanted to point out that there is also a lack of support for these men.

I'm currently at university and so far as I have been able to find there is exactly zero support, or desire for white, cis men. There are advertised support groups, grants and bursaries, and programs for literally every other demographic on campus. If your a white man however your on your own, often because "oh, your part of the patriarchy and don't need help".

It makes it tough to change for the better when its seems that all the groups that seek to improve conditions for the repressed usually point at white men and say "Your bad and should feel bad because your a man". I either stand alone or with the fascists, so I stand alone and do my best to be supportive of human rights for all from the outside.

[–] Pronell 3 points 11 months ago

That is true, more support is needed all around, and there is a crisis of men questioning themselves and their society, along with well-funded outside forces ready to radicalize them.

The central question is compelling because self development and changing society are both vitally important, and we need to be doing a LOT better than yelling "No, not like that!"