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[–] [email protected] 75 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (4 children)

Taking a quick look at the comments I see we're back to 2000s autism speaks bullshit.

Autistic people aren't suffering unless you're putting them in a system that treats them as subhuman.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Autistic people aren't suffering unless you're putting them in a system that treats them as subhuman.

Ah, I see you're familiar with society as well.

[–] Iron_Lynx 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I mean, let's face it, I've seen one meme where autism is described as a condition where everyone else around them has a disorder where they say things they don't mean, where they don't care about structure, fail to focus strictly on singular topics, have unreliable memories, drop weird hints and stare creepily into eyeballs. And the people with autism are the ones with the disorder, because there are way more of the others.

[–] ilikekeyboards 16 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Well well well, just look at any job and watch how people are treated.

[–] Sarsoar 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Yes most autistic people shouldn't suffer if we dismantle the oppressive societal constructs and stigma around the condition and treat them as human.

Most people shouldn't suffer if we break down the social constructs and stigma around them, from race, gender and sex, class, and many other factors.

Antinatalism is not about selectively culling autistic people. It is about the realization that society sucks and the societal constructs we have are likely to increase suffering and so we shouldn't have kids anymore until those issues are resolved.

I am gay, and a racial minority, and an antinatalist. I would hate to have a child knowing they would likely have to face racial discrimination just as much as I do not find it moral to have a child because they may be gay, or autistic, or gender nonconforming, or poor. All those things would likely increase their suffering.

But I wouldn't mind adopting any of those kids, even an autistic child, because live people are people and deserve love and compassion. Antinatalism is about the non-alive children that don't exist and the stance that they shouldn’t ever come to be, no matter what they end up being because in our current world, live likely won't be easy, they would likely contribute to the global environment crisis, and will likely increase the suffering in the world. And also they cannot consent to being forced into existence.

[–] Globeparasite -1 points 7 months ago

I would hate to have a child knowing they would likely have to face racial discrimination

Yep easier to die than dealing with the problem and, you know trying to do something. You know thank god everyone before us choose that instead of striving for social progress, that's precisely why society has been steadily progressing towards amelioration for at the VERY least the past 500 years.

I do not find it moral to have a child because they may be gay, or autistic, or gender nonconforming, or poor

So... that, my friend, is turbo-eugenics. Yes, because you finding it immoral to have kids because they could be those things means that, if you had a mean to have kids, without those risks it would at least be less immoral. Oh and before you start to find excuse : making every argument for something and just saying at the end that it is bad is not being against something.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Autistic people aren’t suffering unless you’re putting them in a system that treats them as subhuman.

While that is true for many of us, it's not true for all of us. But I'm still sure most of us still like being alive, so i'm not disagreeing with the sentiment behind your argument.