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I wish I liked kids because this stuff annoys tf outta me and then I feel bad for being mad at a child
Don't stress, some kids can be REALLY annoying, even your own. I've tried to raise my daughter so she's a lot more articulate than most young children, but she still has her moments. I take no offence to people not being willing to indulge her, and any parent that does, is likely far too self righteous for their own good.
I will admit, I find it hilarious when my daughter manages to mentally derail other adults though. The builders next door have no clue how to react to a small child calling "Hey Boooyys!" at wolf whistle volumes. She's also told cyclists that they are "a very good boy, for wearing their helmet". Part of me knows I should supposedly feel embarrassed, but it's just too funny and innocent.
Don't ever feel embarrassed about your kid doing any innocent stuff, or you'll teach them it's bad somehow. I encourage my daughter to speak her mind any time she cares for it and it's amazing how well adjusted she's to new experiences and socialisation in general.
The issue is, I know, at some point, I need to step in and be the counter balance to her energy. If only for the sake of the sanity of those around us. Unfortunately, my default mindset is to join in and amplify. This is great, to a point. I just don't seem to get where that point is. 🤷♂️
Don't worry though. I'm definitely erring towards being too friendly and energetic. It took a lot of training to get her that outgoing.
Aw, just gotta remember that they're still learning to be a person.