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[–] surewhynotlem 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Doctors aren’t willingly recommending abuse

Boomer doctors aren't dead yet, and haven't learned anything since the 70s.

But seriously, think about whatever industry you're in. Surely there are the 'old guys' who haven't kept up with the progress, but are still around kind of doing a poor job of things. Not all old people, surely, but a fair number. At least, that's how it is in IT.

[–] snausagesinablanket 6 points 1 year ago

Boomer doctors aren’t dead yet, and haven’t learned anything since the 70s.

Apparently you have never heard of required CME's.

[–] SulaymanF 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

That still doesn’t mean they recommend “abuse.” Every doctor in the US must renew their medical license every few years and that means taking continuing medical education classes. Nobody is recommending therapy from the 70s anymore.

Also, it’s still vague about what this “abuse” is so it’s hard to debunk a vague accusation.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This article is really really good, I think it deserves to be a post of it’s own. This quote is the best description of the way I experience being verbal that I’ve found:

When you are autistic, talking can be exhausting. Even if you are extremely verbal like I am – adults praised my precocious vocabulary as a child, and I have often been called a “chatterbox” – vocal speech is draining. My well of words may be deeper than that of most other autistic people, but it is not bottomless.

[–] Buddahriffic -1 points 1 year ago

Also, it’s still vague about what this “abuse” is so it’s hard to debunk a vague accusation.

So you've already made up your mind that it's something that needs to be debunked before you even know what "abuse" refers to?

It's shit like this that keeps hurting credibility of anyone defending established practices, right or wrong.

[–] DarthBueller -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have a distinct recollection of professors at a UNC Chapel Hill department cocktail party comparing notes on their psychoanalysts in the late 2000's.

[–] SulaymanF -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Psychologists are not the same as physicians or psychiatrists. Your 20 year old anecdote isn’t proof of anything, sorry.

[–] DarthBueller 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It was a poor attempt at humor. Sorry. EDIT: oh, it’s you. Hello Newman. Destroyer of humor. Psychoanalysts can have MDs. They’re a relic of one aspect of health that mainly and rightly died out in the 70s. There.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Ahh yes old people are dumb and bad, what a highly enlightened take you have there, you spend way too much time online

Anyone who willingly lumps a bunch of people into a one size fits all category tells me all I need to know about that person

[–] Cryophilia 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Anyone who willingly lumps a bunch of people into a one size fits all category tells me all I need to know about that person

Not sure if intentional, but hilarious either way

[–] optissima 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Damn, it sounds like you're lumping a bunch of people into a one size fits all category, telling me everything I need to know about you. (I believe that 70% of people are liquid, so that should tell you everything you need to know about me)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Just got around to replying and I’ll use this as my reply to you and Cryo..

If an individual person (not a group of people in case that’s not obvious enough) makes statements like all the black people I know are criminals, all the Jewish people I’ve ever met only care about money, every woman I’ve ever dealt with is emotional, boomer doctors aren’t dead yet and haven’t learned anything since the 1970s

Then yes in general I kinda think that tells me all I need to know about that person, they are using blanket statements about groups of people which is pretty idiotic, they later said they were being hyperbolic, okay fine still a dumb statement however