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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

When I was young my mum bought me a cookbook and once a week, usually Sundays, we would make a recipe or two

This is why it might seem so easy to you, wouldn't you think?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well obviously OP can't go back in time to when they were a child, but there's nothing to stop them getting a cook book once a week and trying out a recipe or two.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I mean, yeah, obviously. But claiming it's really easy because you were lucky to have normal parents and have been doing it since you were kid, especially on a question that implies someone didn't have the luxury, is not helping.

[–] spacedancer 3 points 1 year ago

I think the part about knowing how to follow instructions is pretty much true though, at least for me. I only started cooking by myself in my mid-20s. I started by just searching a recipe and adding “simple” in my search query so I get something I can realistically make with what I have in the kitchen/pantry. Then I just follow it to the letter. Through repeated trial and error I eventually learned what could be done faster or easier, what ingredients can be substituted, etc.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But claiming it’s really easy because you were lucky to have normal parents and have been doing it since you were kid, especially on a question that implies someone didn’t have the luxury, is not helping.

I don't think they did that. The bit about cooking being easy and just a matter of following instructions was a completely separate paragraph to the anecdote about it being so easy they learned it when they were a child. And that was my takeaway, incidentally, not the whole "I started as a kid and now I'm a master chef and it's all easy" but rather "9 year olds can figure this out, I'm sure an adult will have no problem picking up the basics". You're combining two separate things in search of a negative take.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not searching for a negative take, I'm just saying how it looks to me. Not OP, not you, not anyone else, just me personally.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I know, and I'm not saying that's completely the wrong take, just that it's almost certainly and pretty obviously (although maybe not immediately) not the one that was intended to be delivered.