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submitted 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) by Djfok43 to c/nostupidquestions
 

I got a message on LinkedIn about a job, it seems legit. The issue is as soon as I replied, she basically told me to apply as quickly as possible because it's time sensitive.

I don't know why this kind of rubs me the wrong way, I guess because I'm in a different time zone and I'm expected to literally drop everything for a job I might not even have an actual chance for.

Also she is the person who I would be working with, my potential future boss, and also the co owner of the company.

Am I overreacting? It just seems unnecessarily stressful idk. Also I'm very afraid of red flags now cause I ignored them at my last company and it was a nightmare.

Edit: I responded and asked some basic questions about the timezone/hours, and if applying in the next few hours would be ok, and she hasn't responded in over an hour. Now I'm wondering if I should even bother applying :/

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[–] Djfok43 9 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

See I was going to mention that but thought maybe it sounded egotistical. It's weird that she is telling me what to do/commanding me before she is even my boss.

Idk if I have a problem with authority or something, or it's just a red flag. I can honestly say I don't know if I've ever had a boss that wasn't at least a little bit sociopathic. The best one I've had basically just hid in his corner and let some nice lady supervise me.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan 10 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

It doesn't sound like you do. Problem with authority and a problem with abused authority are two very different things. If you worked well under a kind boss then it's clear you don't have a problem with bosses, just with those that are demanding, commanding and micromanaging. Sounds to me like healthy boundaries for your mental health.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

I think the consensus is don't do it.