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Should have been angry? What? Do you understand what a boundary is?
Like this is the chain of discussion:
-Sex should he normalized
-Sex must have consent as its foundation, including discussions with your friends, because it's not a norm (per OP own admission it is taboo! Although I argue it is private&personal rather than taboo) and may trigger people withs equal abuse histories, and if you want to be in a space where that IS the norm, you can try sex clubs
-You then take that to apply to ALL discussions on a discussion board, to say that I have to cater to your feelings so you don't have to be concerned about consent with others - like, come on. I hope you do feel bad for this garbage take, it seems like you deliberately and maliciously want to blur consent lines particularly sexually and have practice doing so
Yeah, it's not normal, and not everyone should react that way. But something did happen, and I wonder if I'm supposed to be angry no matter what? Is there something wrong with me if I'm not?
I don't manage your feelings. Why are you asking me if you're supposed to be angry? How tf would I know? It's your limbic system, your boundaries, your reaction.