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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (100 children)

Hey, just so you're aware, a lot of women and trans people find this joke pretty misogynistic and transphobic since it implies that it would be more demeaning for Elon to be a woman or queer than it is for him to be his regular cringey self. Something to keep in mind so we don't friendly-fire on our allies!

Edit for anyone still struggling with this: if 👏 you 👏 misgender 👏 ANYONE 👏 on purpose 👏 then 👏 trans 👏 people 👏 will 👏 not 👏 trust 👏 you 👏

ThePowerofGeek, you're great and appreciated and I hope you don't read anything below from the people who want you to have a worse reaction so their feelings don't get hurt vicariously.

[–] Hackerman_uwu 9 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (50 children)

The intent is to say something that will antagonise Trump. The intent is not to demean women.

Attacking someone who shares your moral platform because you purposefully misinterpret their words to suit a separate agenda is friendly fire.

Transphobia and misogyny are not to be tolerated, do you really think that someone attacking turnip (autocorrect, I’m leaving it) online doesn’t share your views on this?

Stip trying to police speech among your allies. Focus on intent. Stop with the nonsense infighting we are at war rn.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (40 children)

Stip trying to police speech among your allies. Focus on intent. Stop with the nonsense infighting we are at war rn.

Isn't that what you're doing by telling trans people to put up or shut up when 'allies' use transphobic/misogynist insults against 'enemies'

How are we supposed to know that we won't just become the next acceptable target for misogynistic/transphobic abuse if/when we end up on liberals 'enemies' list?

Trump and Elon are buffoons, it's not hard to mock them without tolerating misogyny to do so.

[–] Hackerman_uwu 1 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

It isn’t tolerating misogyny, it’s pointing out misogyny and ridiculing misogynists.

It’s OK if you don’t like how that’s being done, and it’s OK if you can’t understand the nuance but policing my speech unchallenged is not what is going to happen.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I think I got the nuance behind 'bigoted man I disagree with is actually a woman because women amirite?'.

I'm trans, and like actually hate these people, they deserve ridicule. However, if I'm willing to tolerate bigotry on my behalf towards people that are in some out-group, there's no guarantee that some day I won't be among that out-group and subsequently targeted by that type of bigotry. Do you understand the issue I'm raising?

I can't tolerate people misgendering Caitlen Jenner or Blair white because while they suck, it only contributes to an environment where that type of insult is then considered acceptable.

[–] Hackerman_uwu 1 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I think I got the nuance behind 'bigoted man I disagree with is actually a woman because women amirite?'.

Nope.

It goes like this: ‘bigoted man is bigoted because this will aggravate his orange tits. If bigoted man was not bigoted it would not be possible to rip on him like this.’

Put another way: ‘I am a bigot, said John.’

If that doesn’t clarify it then I’m out of patience to explain further.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

That's cool I don't need any more explanations.

[–] TrickDacy 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

That’s cool I don’t ~~need~~ hear any ~~more~~ explanations.

Edit: worth noting that nowhere in this thread does this user talk about how language they don't like feels to them. They just repeatedly state what it "is" condescendingly. And then they intentionally troll people pushing back on that. Funny enough, they accidentally confirmed they are trolling by admitting they are an ESL but then insisting on what expressions mean and sealioning me about them.

[–] TrickDacy 1 points 3 weeks ago

I made the mistake of trying to converse with that user. Their history doesn't indicate they are a full time troll, but on these kinds of topics, they certainly are. And I remember them also defending infamous banned troll UniversalMonk on multiple occasions, if you remember that guy.

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