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I've always hated how alcohol commercials play up like a cool beer is the best thing in the world, or a glass of whiskey is what will put hair on your chest. It's a disgusting narrative that ruins people's lives.

On social media, there's a huge variety of it. People posting how they were sober on NYE. Folks sharing before/after as they've gone cold turkey. I see people share tips of what type of mocktails to get at bars, and alternatives to having a fun night over getting drunk.

I appreciate that.

And this is not bashing alcohol. Moderation in everything.

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[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

You don’t need to have 0 alcohol anywhere in your system to drive. Everyone has their own limits of when alcohol starts to affect them. And how much water you’ve had makes a huge difference.

0 water all day, drank a bunch, then didn’t drink any water afterwards? Yeah you’re gonna want to wait a bit before you drive. But if you’re well hydrated all day, had a few drinks to get buzzed, then chugged some water? Yeah you should be fine after an hour or so. Waiting 12 hours is pretty excessive.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It is known that alcohol reduces inhibitions, making it easier to ignore limits if you start drinking alcohol.

Why you would put yourself in a position where you need to do maths and estimations when you are less suited for it is a dumb decision, when not having alcohol at all is far easier.

Having alcohol when you know you will be driving later is just idiotic. You don't need to min/max drinking and driving.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

It’s not hard to figure out a plan before you start drinking. This isn’t complex algebra. It’s A. What color was my pee B. When do I plan on leaving C. How much food did I have.

I should add that this is all stuff you should think about any time before you drink, regardless of what you’re doing later. Even if it’s just to avoid a hangover.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Or, you can not deal with it at all, and just say "no", you run zero risk of going over, either by miscalculation or misjudging your condition.

Drinking alcohol is not critical, this defending of it if getting annoying.