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so this happened to me yesterday, i was hanging out with a few of my relatives and we were doing a lot of stuff and we were having fun but i realized that when my relatives talk to each other they talk like proper adults because well, they are, like, they can swear and stuff, but when i talk to them they are like "yea buddy sure!!" or talk to me like as if i was some sort of young person, and even my friends do that same thing, all of them!!!! it feels like i'm not part of anyone's conversation which sucks but well it's fine!!!

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[–] rottingleaf 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do the RAADS-R test. In case it's more than 120 (I think that's the number, but it has a description), you may want to read what autism is and whether you may have seen some of the traits in you, and then may visit a psychiatrist.

I say that because autistic people often imitate some style of speech in circumstances not quite fitting.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Did this along with a few others earlier in the year and I'm getting evaluated next week!

[–] rottingleaf 1 points 4 days ago

I got my diagnosis less than a week ago.

I've stumbled upon description of something called "Asperger's syndrome" on a printed A4 sheet, being like 12 years old, but that description was somewhat enigmatic and I couldn't tell how different it is from normalcy. I've also read about Carrie Fisher's life after Star Wars and that she had BAD.

So since that time I suspected that I might be autistic and have bipolar, but thought that condition names are for doctors, while for laymen it's better to say that people are different. So only when I reach a doctor and get a diagnosis, it'll be certain. The approach itself is kinda autistic.

Then somewhere around year 2018 I've, eh, remembered\imagined a lot of things connected to emotional trauma, and came with these idiosyncrasies to a state medical institution (it's Russia) where they just assumed it's simple type schizophrenia (typical Russia again).

Now, being 28 years old, I finally have a normal diagnosis of ASD and BAD and no ADHD. I was certain I have ADHD, but paying attention to my own behavior - I see things architecturally wrong which I still have to work with, or meaningless things, and may seem like an ADHD person, but an ADHD person can't focus, while I can't start due to disgust of something.